Ive been dating my bf for a lil over a month and i care about him so much, id do anything for him. i know he really does care a bout me but it doesnt seem like it. he never makes tiem for me and i only see him once a week. whe ni do see him were with friends, its never just me and him. i always feel like hes hiding something from me but he just wont tell me how he feels. i trust him but it doesnt seem like he trusts me cuz he thinks im hookin up with my best guy friend. he never says it to me directly but my guy friend and his bff always tell me that he asks them. i dont know if i sohould just hold on (cuz eventually it could just hurt both of us) or to just let it go(and have it hurt both of us now). HELP!
2006-06-15 06:01:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him, he is a jerk that is only stringing you on. If he were in to you you would know it. Guys aren't that difficult to figure out. What you see is what you get; if you don't like what you're getting change the scenery.
2006-06-15 06:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your statement started with a contradiction. You said that it doesn't seem like he cares about you, but that you know he does. Sorry, can't be both. If you know that he cares about you, then there wouldn't be a question in your mind, why it doesn't "seem" that he does. You have only been dating a month and this happening? Seriously, where do you think this will go? You need to sit and put all the cards on the table asking him to state how he feels, or you need to move on to someone who will make you feel loved. he's got to go!
2006-06-15 13:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by soccerplayinjuggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys should sit down just the two of you so you guys can get everything out in the open. That's all I think needs to happen. Tell him what you need and want from him, like more one on one time together and after you tell him everything you need from him ask him, "Can you give me these things? And if you can't maybe we should call it quits." Also explain to him that he needs to trust you with your best friend the way you trust him. I hope you guys can talk everything out.
2006-06-15 13:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth it. Honestly think of it, you've only been dating him for a little over a month and you ALREADY have this many problems? If he thinks your hooking up with someone else then that opinion from a guy isn't going to change, dump him and find someone reasonable. That's too much drama for a relationship that has lasted a little over a month.
2006-06-15 13:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice that I can come up with is to ask him whats going on. It kinda sounds like there mite be someone else in the relationship, and he's just spending more time with the other person. But then again I haven't even met him so I couldn't tell just from and internet description.
2006-06-15 13:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Sky Dreaming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and make plans with him just the two of you. Tell him "lets go somewhere just us" If he keeps blowing you off them move on. Once a week will get old, and you guys will just end up arguing all the time.
2006-06-15 13:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Emma S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u n this guy of urs need 2 sit n talk abt ur problems n work them out...if u r teally serious about this then let him kno that u r very serious n that he needs to make some time soon for the both of u. u cannot have problems n not talk about them, u ppl will not be getting anywhere so put out the effort n time...
2006-06-15 13:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by Shaneka H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered a question about threesomes...2 guys n you. if you have a willing guy, id be willing to be a third. could try 2 in you at same time or b/f goes in you and you and i 69 at the same time.
interested??
2006-06-15 13:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by t.j. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 tell you the truth i really think you should leave him just because he sounds like your to good for him and you could do better than that dude so dump him before he breaks u
2006-06-15 13:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is only a mth! trust me, dun drag any longer...
2006-06-15 13:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by tattoo babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋