o.k. i am with this guy and i like him a lot. all we do is kiss and stuff but i am afraid that he will eventually get bored, with me and if that happens, what do i do? what do you guys suggest that i do without getting too into it?
2006-06-15 05:57:43 · 11 answers · asked by liz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. i have a pet
2. i am not a slut and i am very far from it.
3. you dont know me so dont judge me.
4. have you not liked someone enough to know what i feel like?
5. think before you type, you dont know me.
2006-06-15 06:06:12 · update #1
that was all to
my_eskies
2006-06-15 06:07:25 · update #2
thank you so much to
KICK7
BKBARILE
IANK
2006-06-15 06:44:37 · update #3
and JENNY G
2006-06-15 07:47:23 · update #4
I am a little older that 16 (I'm 24), but I was 16 a couple of years ago so I have some good advice.
The truth is that he might get bored if you don't go farther.
He will DEFINATELY get bored if you do go further.
By not doing anything with him you can weed out if he's actually cool. Meaning that he is into you, and a relationship, and being together for a long time (remember dating is supposed to be practice for an eventual marriage. Hopefully in many, many years).
If you do go further with him you'll never know if he likes you, or just likes doing stuff with you.
For years and years I went further with every girl I dated, and I broke up with every one of them within a couple of months (sad, I know). Eventually I would meet a girl who wasn't like that. And would you believe I ended up marrying her, and I think she is the BEST girl I've ever met. She'll never have to worry about me. (we've been together for 5 years now).
So good luck.
2006-06-15 06:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by iank 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm no 14-16 year old boy but a mom of one and I think you and your boyfriend should do more things such as go out more with a bunch of other kids your age or get into a hobby that the both of you would like. Take care and have a safe & fun summer.
2006-06-15 13:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tortured Soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is getting board just kissing you , then he will get board with everthing else you are will to do
I am older, but this is true, if a women excties you mentaly that is what keeps people around
wait, it is better, oh yea you are right people are being way too hard on you
2006-06-15 13:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by bkbarile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he likes you as much as you like him just kissing for now should not be a problem,I'm 15 myself & Im just fine with being in a kissing situation for a while,There is really nothing else you can do that doesnt consider getting "Too into it" so.Goodluck..........
2006-06-15 13:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by kick 7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you, he won't get bored of you.
Don't do more with him just because your scared he won't like you anymore. Take your time, if you're not ready to do things with him then don't. No one's forcing you to. Just be yourself around him, i'm pretty sure he'll like you for who you are, you seem like a nice girl. So just go with the flow, whatever happens, happens. Good luck!
2006-06-15 12:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by #.::PenguiN::.# 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14-16 years old, don't mess yourself up trying to keep this boy's attention, because chances are if you have to try to come up with something to keep his attention it's not going to work out anyways. Not to mention, most high school relations don't become marriages, successful ones anyways.
2006-06-15 13:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cullin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't stay with you and your relationship isn't intimate enough to with stand no physical contact other than kissing then the relationship isn't that strong to begin with. Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-15 13:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the sound of it, that guys in it just to get some, if he's not contributing to the relationship, drop him like a sack of potatoes
2006-06-15 13:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by astrosalltheway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got bored with every girl I was with. In time I'm sure he will get bored with "you" also. It doesn't matter where you go with him.
2006-06-15 13:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make fell very sexy and follow that e say
2006-06-15 13:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋