I v a 7 year old son. Yesterday his teacher invited me to the school. She told me that yesterday morning while everyone else was waiting to enter the school, she had noticed a scream and upon following the voice, she had found my little son in the class trying to take a girl's clothes off. When she had asked him why he had done that thing, my son had told her crying that I had told him to do so. I am not such an idiot but I wonder what the teacher is thinking about me.
2006-06-15 05:50:24 · 12 answers · asked by rüzgar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I guess you're gonna hafta go to school, to speak with the teacher, and find out what she thinks of you.
Personally, from your prior questions, methinks your mind works in very unusual fashion........
2006-06-15 05:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would start thinking about the influences in this boys life. If he was crying and said that, he may have been frightened and afraid to tell the truth. Is it possible he is the victim of sexual abuse? Is it possible that he is watching television shows or movies that he is not mature enough to handle. This is not something I would just brush off as no big deal or worry about what other people thought of me. What is going on in this boys mind, his motivation for doing this, his saftey and well being are much more importanat that what people are thinking of you. Take some action and talk to this boy- gently so he knows that if something is wrong it is not his fault, look around and see what is going on with him that would cause him to do this. Put aside your own worries about what people are going to think of you and help this precious baby- he is only 7!!!!!
2006-06-15 05:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They know that kids make up stories, but they are obligated to investigate situations like that. Just be honest and open with them, maybe your son needs some professional help.
2006-06-15 05:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh goodness. Do not worry about what ANYONE thinks of you! It wasn't you! As far as I'm concerned it wasn't you. But, he's just a little boy, boys do that. Boys are nuts. My dad was a bad little boy when he was younger, but as he got older he got a lot more tame. thats for sure! Hope you feel encouraged. Do not worry what will happen tomorrow.
2006-06-15 05:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! How embarrassing! If it is really bothering you, ask to have a conference with the teacher. Let her know how you feel and maybe you'll feel better.
2006-06-15 06:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would talk to the teacher and just explain everything and say to her that I hope you don't think badly of me.
2006-06-15 05:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes!
2006-06-15 05:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by kathy059 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she thinks you are a perv, and I do too. j/k kids do that crap all the time, I had to listen about my son puling a girls shorts and panties down whe he was in 2nd grade. don't worry about it, it's just a kid thing.
2006-06-15 05:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for kids to have sexual instincts and lie about that. just talk to your son.
2006-06-15 05:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by frec_menta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats bad you betta put a leash on you kid
2006-06-15 05:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by dd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋