he saw me a couple of times....say's to call i call and he won't call me back....or tells me to call and doesn't answer his cell...should i keep calling or just give up...i called him yesterday very casual just called to say hello....very short and simple...i really want to see and talk to him again...what do i do...help me please...he is really a cool guyand very loving person...
2006-06-15 05:43:36 · 22 answers · asked by Sue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some times it’s good to wait, but sometimes while we’re waiting on the wrong things, better things pass us by.
2006-06-15 05:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ray-Ray 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying, but don't call TOO frequent. You really want to hook up with him, but you don't want him to get annoyed by all your calls, right? And you don't want to make a fool of yourself if he's messing with you, right? Maybe you could try this, but it's your decision: When you do talk to him, make yourself sound interested, but also make yourself sound a little playfully mysterious, so that he will become curious and call you more often. But then again, if you make yourself sound like your playing "hard-to-get", he might just not talk to you at all. That's advice coming from a gay 16 year old. Use it wisely.
2006-06-15 05:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Sky Dreaming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like u r completely bowled over by this guy. but i think u should slow down and think b'coz maybe what u feel for him is just an infatuation. u really dont know this this guy well and it doesnt seem that this guy is too keen to keep in touch with u.may be he too is in the same condition as u r. just give him a little time and see whether he too is so desperate to talk to u. after all u cant force anyone to fall in love........
all the best!
2006-06-15 05:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by precious_girl08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is interested he would call back or answer. You have called, make your point that you want to see him, and the ball is in his court. If he isn't available then he isn't worth your time. If a guy really wants to get to know you he will find a way to talk or see you.
2006-06-15 05:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by curious_weebz06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope- you've given him all the chances he deserves. If he is playing games then play back. Ignoring someone is the best way to get their attention. You don't want to be the girl in the story that is always calling him - don't pump his ego up that much. Next time he says call him - tell him you will - then don't. (Even if it kills you!!!) See what he does.
2006-06-15 05:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by a1025goodgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a couple times more, if he doesn't respond forget about him... he can't be a cool guy or a loving person if he cant respond to a phone call
2006-06-15 05:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by thehereyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think u need to stop calling I've called him already and if he hasn't responded to u yet he might be not interested or he might just be shy and don't know what to say. Maybe if you don't call him he will wonder why u haven't and then he'll call you.
2006-06-15 05:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by chica73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to call too much, like twice an hour, but try once a day, and if he hasn't answered in a week, then stop trying. If he wants to talk to you, he will have to call you.
2006-06-15 05:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER call a guy first if hes interested HE should call you if YOU are interested you will give him your #. until you are in a relationship only call a guy back if he has already called you 1st
2006-06-15 05:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by frogger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is interested he will find time in his super busy schedule even if that means life or death. He is not as interested as you think he is. Maybe he is just NOT interested. Don't waste your time, stop calling him. Call someone else.
2006-06-15 05:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gave it a shot a few times I know when I was in that situation I called twice and just left a nice and simple message leting that person know that I called and hoped to see them. Don't waste your time after that, if it's ment to be, it's ment to be. Que sara,sara.
2006-06-15 05:50:37 · answer #11 · answered by nycballin79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋