I have had relationship with the women is 40 and I am 32. We have known each other for a little over a month, but I am already in love with her. I believe she loves me too, but she has a lot of issues. She has been been marriage numerous times. Her 19 month year old son is in foster care, because she is implusive and has a bad choice in men and she also was a victim of domestic violence, also I think she has some mental issue i.e. depression and personality disorder. She wrote me a note and it said. "Ain't no mountain high enough, baby I need you for loving, will you be willing to try, love will make it allright, no sorry, no excuses, no promises, no commitment, just love. I do not know how to view this words, Please help me. Take in considerations that she told me that I fill that gap when she needed someone and we spend almost every day with each other in the month period.
2006-06-15 05:30:27 · 8 answers · asked by krhines31 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that I am in love with her because I think about her all the time and I go crazy when I am not around her.
2006-06-15 05:33:59 · update #1
She told me that she chose me in the beginning I was a nice and decent guy. Should I give her some space and let her come to me.
2006-06-15 05:45:25 · update #2
love is always without commitment.she is right.
2006-06-15 05:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a lunatic!!!! Anyone who is professing their love to you after a month is not in love they are insecure and afraid to spend anytime alone. That all leads to big trouble, are you ever going to want to go out and hang with your friends again? A month isn't love it's called infatuation!!! Take your time and learn to be able to enjoy each others company and all the little quirks and annoyances we things called humans have. If after a period of time you still feel the same about each other then be in LOVE, after that if you still feel the same try a commitment.
2006-06-15 06:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by centralfiresafety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait longer and get to know her, committment is a big step. make sure you know her and prepare yourself for the worst. if shes been married numerous times, try and find out what when wrong. it's not always the other person's fault. if her child is in foster care that is becasue NEITHER parent was fit to raise him. you only know one side of her story too, so don't jump to conclusions and be on her side all the time. listen to what she says and see if her story changes. 1 month is way too soon to know if you could commit to someone.
2006-06-15 05:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her, then give her more time. One month is too soon to be committed.
2006-06-15 05:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them time n space n oneday it will happen. one month is too soon to judge anything now get to kno her more n c what is it she is afraid of but if reaches the point where u have given up move on or if u love her as u say then give it another try or c a counsellor...
2006-06-15 05:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Shaneka H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont see y ure scared to commitment to a lady. if u love her u love her.
and wat the note means is that all u need to do is at least try to love her and love makes everything better. she just wants to be loved by u!
2006-06-15 05:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Peaches~n'~Cream*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
commitment is tough and scares people into another phase...be careful and follow your gut....trust and understanding are the key...
2006-06-15 05:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then they don't love you
2006-06-15 10:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thinking about all the p u s s y there givin upp!
2006-06-15 05:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by Black Dr. Phil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋