ok so yah i got a lil problem here. a few months ago, cuz of the net and yahoo msngr, i became good friends with this fellow who's a senior in my school. it was kinda wierd @ first but...then...we became close. well, when his friends found out, they thought that i had a little thing for him and started teasing the both of us. at that time, none of us liked each other. but, now, i think i have developed a little thing for him. i mean...it's like...whatever...he's cute...n very friendly...and i like him a lot!!!...the thing is that after his friends went mad in teasing the both of us...he has kinda been a lil distant 4om me even though we talk sometimes. now the thing is that...i dunno what he thinks of me cuz he could have easily stopped his friends 4om bugging me but hasn't...GOD...m going mad..!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-06-15 05:05:59 · 24 answers · asked by Rhea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him out, or just stay friends. The answer is pretty easy.
2006-06-15 05:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell this guy a little about how you feel or kind of mention hanging out sometime as friends you know to get to know each other in person more instead of just on-line and see what he says or see his reaction if its not good then just let it go! All guys are funny when it comes to there friends so dont' worry about them. My husband did everything with his friends even after 1 year married but now his great so guys just take a little longer to tell friends and everybody else to back off so don't worry about the friends think!
2006-06-15 05:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by rybak5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... here's the situation: The guy you like doesn't have enough backbone to stand up to his friends. Also, he's one of those guys to whom the approval of his friends is necessary before going out with a girl. Apparently, his friends don't approve of you and are giving him a bad time about it. The good news is that this need for his friend's approval wears off after high school, but if you don't want to wait that long, I'd move on. He's a social animal, and he's not going to swim against the current.
You have to find someone who either doesn't care what his friends think and likes you for who you are, or has friends who think you're as cool as he does. Either way, the relationship will be stronger and less stressful for you.
2006-06-15 05:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by BeenThere69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think that he is being shy...you know sometimes we can get a bit intimidated by the over reacting of our friends..and how they can be so freaking annoying sometimes over issues like this...I think he is just bothered by them, and it has got nothing to do with you. He still feels the same way for you as you guys r stil friends. Dont worry as i guess he just need some time to figure out how to stop the friends from teasing...and he will get back to you in no time...cheer up!!!
2006-06-15 05:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nailhead_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how he feels about you? I think he is just embarrassed about being teased by his boys. Guys are weird like that. Do you still talk to him on IM? If things are still cool with the two of you, I would say talk to him about it, tell him that you are glad that your friends, that you sorry that his friends tease you guys..... just let it flow from there. I would defiantly make it be known that you are diggin him. You never know what could happen!! Good luck! Get em girl!
2006-06-15 05:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by assytee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will learn that eventually you are the one who makes the decisions. If you really like this guy, tell him. If he rejects, move on. Life is too short to wait for things to happen. Be honest and upfront with him. the worst that will happen is he will not acdcept your advances. there are plenty of guys out there to choose from.
2006-06-15 05:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why hes being so distant. ask him if he want his space or if he wants things to go back to the way they were. If u tell him u like hom off the bat it'll scare him. feel him out first. and let him kno u miss the friendship u had
2006-06-15 05:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by Tracy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take no tension its ok ...i think so he even likes u ...he must be shy to tell u ...neglect ur friends teasing if u like him thats more important thing so be strong ..i think so the boy must be even shy to talk to u as everyoone are teasing but he must be loving u ...i think he must have even got the same feeling for u ..u love him and he loves u thats the most important thing
2006-06-15 05:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by doublemm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ask him out. Behind his friend's backs. It's ignorant that they have to tease you and him, just because your good friends. That's just stupid and immature, even for seniors.
2006-06-15 05:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you ain't getting nobody with that hair but Good luck anyway. And you will find the best person in life for you one way or another. :P
2006-06-15 05:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋