ok.. im 14 and ive dated one guy but he was my best friend. so that only lasted 2 days. now im single never been kissed and everyone else has. im not that ugly. im acctually quite pretty. im just a little overweight. for a 14 yr old im 145 lbs. so whats wrong with me?
2006-06-15 04:48:27 · 39 answers · asked by someone-else 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 15, 135lbs, pretty, athletic, and talented. I've never been kissed, nor have I had a bf. I've had numerous guys like me, just no boyfriend. So, does that mean there's something wrong with me? No, my time will come just like yours babe. Stop sulking and be the confident outgoing gorgeous girl you are and some guy will notice you.
2006-06-15 04:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Hello,It'sMe 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you, except you lack confidence in yourself. Unfortunately, society has put an image in the minds of teenagers that they have to be a skinny model type to have a boyfriend and be beautiful!! You are only 14 years old!! Don't push it! Hanging out with friends, social dating...that is all cool. Don't fret about not being kissed just yet. It only stems from the pressure from society and what they consider "cool". It is not the case. Let me ask you...do you want to be a Mommy? Kissing leads to sex in many, many cases. You are beautiful and strong the way you are!! Worry about being smart and getting a good paying job! Socialize, but don't carry it too far!!
2006-06-15 04:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by junebug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey calm down girl. Im 14 and have never had a BF either. Trust me nothing is wrong with you! Unfortunatly guys at this age are only looking for a girlfriend that he can show off to his friends. Dont sweat it and someday you will find someone that really loves you. Look at the brightside, BF's ruin your time with friends and just brake up with you all the time. Watch all your classmates and there BF's, they will more than likly be broke up sometime within the next few monthes!! Good luck and have fun!
2006-06-15 05:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by summer luvver :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about not been kissed yet or not having your first kiss. I was 16 when i had my first kiss and I dated that person for about 5 months before we kissed. You will found the right person and you will get your first kiss but you are still young and have plenty of time to found the right one. Don't think of yourself being overweight because 145 is not overweight. Don't worry about nothing you will have your first kiss soon it's just time take to found that right guy you really have feelings for.
2006-06-15 04:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by heavenlildevil78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya! You don't have to be in a rush to get a boyfriend. Nothing is wrong with you. I know that some jealousy might be going on when you see your friends with boyfriends but it happens. You'll get your turn. Dont try to change for anyone, especially boys. Boys probably do like you but you dont notice. Talk to more people. I was just like you, then after i started actually talking to guys about 5 of them liked me. I was 150 and i was 14. Nothing is wrong.
2006-06-15 04:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. Men are pigs, they don't see what real beauty is, they just look for a piece of ***. I know it might seem harsh, but its true. Your only 14, you have a long ways to go. Don't get discouraged, it will happen, just give it some more time. If you feel that your weight is the biggest issue for you, do something about it, but only if it is going to make YOU feel better about yourself. Good luck, and don't ever think that you are not good enough, because you are!
2006-06-15 04:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by assytee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Trying to date bestfriends is always a mistake to me. But that is just my opinion . 145 is not a bad weight for a 14 year old, I was about that weight when I was your age. You will be fine just take it easy and let things happen naturally.
2006-06-15 04:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by Food4Thought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 14!! The world is at your feet, why are you so hurried? You will get a lot of kisses in the future!
And if you are worried about being overweight, start doing something healthy about it.
And if your insecure, guys sense that, so try to love yourself and people will love you back
2006-06-15 04:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by lievedebs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, who cares if all your friends have kissed someone. don't rush that. everyone makes it a big deal now, but trust me, i promise you, its not a big deal. it'll happen.
i'm sure you are very pretty. don't let anyone tell you otherwise. if you think you are a little overweight, why not start playing a sport. you are in high school, get on a sports team or go to the gym. try a aerobics class, those are fun and you will lose weight. eat healthy too.
2006-06-15 04:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by AreYouForReal? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your obesity. for 14 years 145 lbs is Little on higher side.You must first of all reduce your fat.
You have kissed or not that is o.k. why you worry about something unwanted.As a girl you should be very careful in preserving your purity. or virginity That is meant for your husband and you live for him like wise. Do not go for dating with anybody in future.
2006-06-15 05:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by gkakkasseri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first enjoy being single,young and 14.these things will change faster then you can imagine.145 lbs big deal,if that is something thats bothering you, you can change it.dont worry about what everyone else has done.when the time is right it will happen.enjoy being you,and beleave me thers nothing wong with you.dont ever let anyone else tell you different.L 1 S.
2006-06-15 05:10:18 · answer #11 · answered by lonely1still 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋