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He says I don't give him love but i don't how can i show him that i do love him!!

2006-06-15 04:41:28 · 16 answers · asked by collegelife 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

Ignore it. He will get over it. That is his fault that he is insecure. Do whatever you do to show him and if that is not good enough maybe you need to question him? Is he making excuses? Does he just want attention? Dont waste time on crap like that... enjoy each other!

And.... maybe the terminator and andrew need to hook up... sounds like they would get along great!

2006-06-15 04:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Rootay 2 · 0 0

Make a point by asking him exactly what he feels and thinks you should do. When he tells you, listen him out, even if you disagree with how he perceives everything. Make a point of taking his phrase and repeating it as a question if you do not understand it. Good communication can really go a long way and save a relationship.

For example: If he says something like "I think you spend to much time with your other friends", and you are not sure about what he is trying to tell you, repeat this phrase as a question: "Do you think I should not spend that much time with my girlfriend Maria?". That way you are putting him into the position of having to be more specific of what or who the problem is and you both can work out an agreement that will work for both.

2006-06-15 11:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0 0

it depends if you're really at fault. your boyfriend could be manipulating you. If your boyfriend can't tell that you love him, then either something is wrong with the way you show affection or he's trying to get you to do something for him. You should never have to "prove" or "show" your love, that kind of goes against the nature of love in the first place. You should ask your boyfriend to prove his love (and not through some physical act). Turn the tables on him and see if he can come up with something.
oh, and by the way, if a guy ever told me to prove my love I'd dump him in a hearbeat.

2006-06-15 11:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by medusaswrath 4 · 0 0

don't give him any sex, and when he says something about it...... tell him that if you are going to be accused of it, you might as well start doing it. The point is, you should show your affection in ways you feel appropriate. It may be that is way of showing love is different than yours. Maybe you can both meet in the middle, but you should never bend over backwards as to satisfy what he feels is an adequate showing of love

2006-06-15 11:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by soccerplayinjuggalo 2 · 0 0

If I understand your question, then it's sex that he wants.Sex is not love, sex is sex and love is love, don't confuse the two. Sex befor marriage puts you in a class of a street walker. Think about this; If your boyfriend has had sex with others then there is a chance that he could be carrying VD (venereal Disease)and not even know it. Talk to your parents about this, if you can, if not talk to a doctor. Above all don't trade sex just to keep a boyfriend that well most likely breakup with you, leaving you with what you lost and can never get back.

2006-06-15 12:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by bemco11 1 · 0 0

IDK? maybe you could try taking him out and you payin for it or just have something very romantic like cook a nice dinner that you can put in a basket and make it some of his favorite foods that will show that you listen and then have a picnic under the stars in a quiet place where you can be alone and tell him that you love him at the right moment that will show him you care!

2006-06-15 11:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by HOT LINN 2 · 0 0

I think this may be different for every person. The best thing to do is ask him how he wants you to show him that you love him.

2006-06-15 11:44:13 · answer #7 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0 0

little things go a long way. a kiss on the cheek for no reason, a love note just because, a phone call to just say i live you , things like this say a lot

2006-06-15 11:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by bonnie_clyde_4u 2 · 0 0

tell him everyday. give him a big smile and look in his eyes when you do say it. flatter him abit. on maybe how nice he smells or you like the way he has his hair or something like that. guys love this just as much as girls.

2006-06-15 11:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by hot gurl 2 · 0 0

Give him a head job

2006-06-15 11:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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