how do you know if he is really in live with you or just playing games?
2006-06-15 04:33:57 · 22 answers · asked by bonnie_clyde_4u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is really in love with you if he accept you for what you are and accept your flaws...he'll be with you during good and bad days..if not.. ditch him..
2006-06-15 04:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned that if you catch them in one lie then there are several other lies that you dont even know about. Men who play games normally seem alittle shady - they dont always tell you where they are they dont always answer when you call. And yes sometimes they are busy but if you really pay attention to how they treat you then you will know. BUT - you can't play games either. You have to be honest and be yourself ALWAYS! And have confidence in who you are and if they realize you can not be manipulated into playing their games they will move on and you are better off without them.
2006-06-15 11:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch how he treats you. If he truly looks out for you and shows how much he cares, it's a good bet that he's in love with you (or on his way). If he routinely blows you off for his friends and doesn't take your feelings into consideration most of the time, I would say he's either confused or playing games.
2006-06-15 11:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can't help but to play games... Just like their toys, they can NEVER have too many. If you are having to question him them it may be time to move on. TRUST yourself first. Because it sounds to me that you are having a hard time trusting him... FYI by B/F is a guy and a player so I have an inside on how they,he, thinks... Happiness starts with U!
2006-06-15 11:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know by the way he treats you not only when you're alone together but also when around other people.It's also in the little things like the way he looks at you,if he goes out of his way to do things for you and if he always tries to spend time with you either physically or over the phone.Hope this helps you out!
2006-06-15 11:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's breathing, he is definetly live with you. If you look at the TV and see Super Mario Bros, he is playing games. Love is something entirely different. Good luck!
2006-06-15 11:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read the Book "He's just not that into you." You might can find it on Oprah's list or something b/c one of the tv personalities had the author on their show and it was great. The male author gives ways to know whether he's "into" you or not!
2006-06-15 11:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by DT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well whats he like what makes u think hes playing games
2006-06-15 11:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by yayo_upin_disbitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, I don't think there is anyway to know. I usually come straight out and ask the guy i'm with, they usually say that they are. My b/f for 3 years said he was, and come to find out he really wasn't. Don't waste your time with a guy unless your heart and head tell you hes the right one. You'll know.
2006-06-15 11:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think about how he treats you around his friends. does he treat you like a buddy or deos he show you how he feels in front of them even just a little.i think if he loves you he would spend if not more time but an equal amount of time with you as he does his friends. and he would ask you to hang with him and his buds
2006-06-15 11:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by falisia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is the right guy, you would know and wouldnt' have to question his motivations.
Part of love is trust. If you feel you can't trust him, there is probably a good reason for that.
2006-06-15 11:35:14 · answer #11 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋