How to tell my boyfriend of 1 month that I love him?

Answer 1

eh after one month? ya dont unless you want him to run away...

ya should wait till he says it first, otherwise you might freak him out

Answer 2

Ask him how he would feel if a casual date were in love with him at this point in his life and would he be willing to love someone back the same in a committed relationship.

It's a trap contrived by a women's need to be involved. Women, and men fall in love at the wrong time with the wrong person, because it's possible they could be the right person at the right time on another day. The guy is just not ready for it, while women have a need for security even at a young age. Women want the guy to sign his life into a long term definite commitment. Part of growing up is deciding when to start an intimate relationship and choosing the right time in your life to hang the picture on the wall.

Answer 3

OK here goes...So far all the answers are good ones and good idea's.

You have only been with him for a month...Let time and feelings play as the may...
You never want to rush into anything in life..Life is short why rush in.

And on the other hand you have ben with him for a month..You need to sit back sometimes and see for yourself how he acts around you.
Are you in his every thought..In his mind at all times...How does he react around his friends when you are around..???????

You need to take all of this into consideration before you make the jump from dating to loving.

I once was told by a very important person in my life that said..."Love is a illness that can be cured by marriage"..
Which means do not rush into anything.Love.....

Enjoy life and enjoy just being you first.....If you have doubts about how he feels...Let it ride..

Best wishes..

Answer 4

With my current boyfriend, we had been at an Amtgard game all day and I was sunburned and exhausted. He kissed me goodnight and it kind of slipped out before I really thought about it. My late husband told me first... on our first date. I once sent up a bunch of ballons at a picnic that said "I love you David" on them... David and I lasted about a year. Just say it... it does not really matter how as long as you mean it.

Answer 5

That is a tough one.

I had a girlfriend who made me say it first. This way she said she was safe to say it at a later date.

You need to make sure he feels the same way. If not, you could get laughed at or even worse dumped.

Be cautious!

Answer 6

ok you wont to tell some guy youve known for 1 month you love him.you dont love is many feelings roled in to one.one as one word.its happyness,sadeness,excitement,lonelyness.I could go on and on,just to say what that one word means.take your time.there is plenty of that.to most saying you love them,means your comitting yourself to just that one person,is that what your trying to say.just think about it.keep in touch.lonely1still.

Answer 7

you are just going to have to trust your instincts when you are ready to say it. I would say it to him when you know that the feeling is mutual. If you are not sure that he loves you yet like you love him, then just wait awhile. It will come naturally. Good luck! :)

Answer 8

Just go up to him put your arms around him... give him a kiss and tell him that you love him. That's what I would want my girlfriend to do to me.

Answer 9

You have to bite the bullet and tell him. That is what I did, and hell he told me the same back. We have been together for over a year now. :)

Answer 10

don't tell him.. show him that u love him..show u care and want to know him better...after a while...he'll get the idea..then only u tell him

gud luck!