i am in love with amarried women , pls sugesst?

Answer 1

TROUBLE!! Don't do it or even think about it no matter what she says or does. Until you see a document signed that she's divoriced, you'll never know her true intentions, I don't care what excuses she gives or what "complications" are preventing her from doing that. You deserve better, someone available, and I promise that person is out there for you...if it's her, then maybe someday down the line it could happen, but not right now. I'm sorry, but you wouldn't want to be the husband on the other end who's wife would do that to you, or another man trying to come between you.

Answer 2

I suggest you do what you feel is right but know there are consequences with your actions. I personally would just forget about her (I know easier said than done) because if you don't you're gonna find yourself someplace you didn't wanna be. My mother is actually in love with a married man. He told her he was getting a divorce and how much he wanted to be with her. My mother recently found out that they are not really getting a divorce and that they were trying to work things out. This hurt my mother so much that every day she just comes home from work and goes straight to her room. It hurts me to see my mother so down. She's constantly crying and looking depressed while he's probably doing whatever with his wife. So I warn you that nothing good can come from messing with someone who's married. Wait until that individual is divorced and maybe then try to pursue a relationship.

Answer 3

If she is married, the best thing you can do is respect her marriage. She got married because she felt a strong connection with her man, and she made the vows to stay with that man. You might have feelings of attraction for her, but in the end trying to turn it into a relationship is only going to drive you apart, and possibly have a very angry husband banging down your door (or worse). Still, she took a vow before God to be with her man, something that should not be broken, so the best thing you can do is respect her decision and respect that God put them together. Blessings,

Brian

Answer 4

You need to ask yourself some questions. Is wanting to be with her worth all the pain and trouble that you might put her through if you and her get together and she leaves her husband.You see, what ever decision that she makes, is going to effect her whole family weather it be bad or good.If she has kids then look at what she would be putting them through if she left her husband for you. also her husband could take you to court for stilling her affection.I am serious, I know that sounds silly ,but it is true.Another thing put the shoe on the other food. If you were married to her how would you feel if someone wanted her.

Answer 5

that is not good and you should get away from the whole situation... all it will cause is pain for someone down the road... she is married and if she is messing around with you and you end up with her ..how do you know she will not do the same to you?? being involved with married woman or man is just not a good thing... it tears homes apart and causes so much pain in several lives...i know this by experience...i stayed with my husband for years after he did this but he never changed so i lost 23 years of my life to a no good abusive , lying , cheating man....why let yourself go down that path when there is so many women out there that is not married.....

Answer 6

How can you be in LOVE with a woman willing to betray her husband? The man she promised to love for the rest of her life. Do you think she would be any different if she left her husband for you and later on down the line she met some other guy? She's not worth your time.

Answer 7

Get out of the relationship. I have been the other woman several times and I always ended up the person to get hurt plus I got the added guilt of knowing that my actions were hurting more than his wife... there were kids in one situation. Marriage is supposed to be sacred. Tell her you will be there if she ever decides to leave him and then walk away. If she leaves him it will have been of her own choice and you will not be responsible. But if you lure her away then what is to say that someday someone else will not lure her away from you?

Answer 8

Leave her alone, she is married. Do people come on here looking to hear that it is ok to cheat or that it is ok to break up a marriage, well sorry your not getting that from me. If she is interested in you wait till she is divorced. Do you really want all that drama in your life. If you don't wait and you have an affair with a married woman, do you want to love someone who would cheat on their husband, it will be you next.

Answer 9

Does she love you? Is it real love, or just lust? Is she happy with her life and her husband? Ask yourself these questions before you pursue ANYTHING. If She loves you as well, and its true, deep love, and she's not happy with her husband, you two need to talk about your options. She married him for a reason, but things can sour over time. My parents did. If she does love you and is willing to try to work on things, she needs to at least be seperated from her husband before she even thinks about dating you, or anything else. Cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone. I've been cheated on and it devastated me. It was almost two years ago and I still can't get over it. It can destroy someone. Talk it out first before ANY ACTION IS TAKEN. TRUST ME.

Answer 10

Know that there is 90% chance that nothing good will come from this situation....U love her..what about her kids, her family her husbands family. How will the husband react.....are u just a go between for their problems......ur lovin her but u could possibly be making her relationship with her husband stronger. Why subject ur self to this.....U have srong feelings...are u going to let them control ur future....u could possible be jeopordizing ur future with some one is for u.