Ok, I am 20 years old and was in a 5-year relationship until recently. I'm not very experienced with various men and their mentalities, so I'd like to know if morally it is wrong to have sex for the hell of it. And also if sleeping with a girl so quickly means that she is a sl*t or easy or a ho?
2006-06-15 04:04:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just wanted to say thanks for spelling ho correctly. Some guys may look at it that way but in all honesty sometimes a girl just wants to get laid too. If this is a guy that you see yourself wanting to be in a relationship with I wouldn't recommend it, it may just give him the wrong idea about your previous lifestyle.. but like I said, sometimes a girl just wants to get laid, and if that's all you're trying to do.. go for it girl!
2006-06-15 04:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex is not morally wrong. if you want to get laid there is no one that you're hurting by doing that.
I don't consider a girl that has sex for the hell of it to be a s!ut. I just don't think that way about women. To be a s!ut you have be be degrading yourself. But if you're into sex because you just like sex then it's ok.
you see, you CAN hurt yourself by having sex. but it depends on the reasons WHY you want sex so much. If you're having sex with men because you are seeking approval. honey, you're sick. really sick and should go see a shrink 'cause THAT is what a s!ut is. Never never put your self esteem into someone elses hands. do you see the difference???
While the above is totally my opinion, I hope i've answered your question.
And if you enjoy sex that much, check out the swingers groups.
www.thecottageinpa.com
great place for finding a sex partner.
tom
2006-06-15 04:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have sex for sex means something to some people.
But if you have not done this and are thinking about it, you probably are not a "s l*t" or ho.
A "s l*t" or ho goes for anything. They will sleep with whatever.
Also, a ho or "s l*t" is not necessarily someone who does that. They could take money for it too.
Think about it before you do it. You might not be able to sleep with yourself.
Take Care
2006-06-15 04:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by javarick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if I had to answer your question I would say I would consider her a girl who is easy. If it has only been 1 week with me, then who knows how many other guys it was only 1 week for. Unless I am someone "special", then that is what I would think to myself. I would never, however, tell her to her face that I thought this because that would be extremely rude. I also am not going to say I wouldn't hook up with her again...lol
2006-06-15 04:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"little tease " It particularly easily relies upon on what u mean by utilising that, in case you mean like the stereotypical movie version; push us away and shop working away form we are gonna get particularly positioned off after the 1st few circumstances =/ . yet, on account which you began of with "Do adult adult males like" i'm going to tell you that there's no longer something warmer than a woman who ( you're already going out with ) that grabs you and make's out with you suitable there suitable than, ideally in public. in case you may particularly wait till you're *mushy* , then that purely potential you at the instant are not there yet, yet for the affection of god as quickly as you're there do no longer make it complicated for us to get a kiss. wish this facilitates :P
2016-12-08 21:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think of you as a really nice person!! jk I understand you are wanting to experiment but keep in mind, you have to be very careful! Have fun but be willing to pay the price for your actions if necessary.
2006-06-15 04:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the girl started asking for it within that time, yes. for me i would wonder if she is. But then im 23 and virgin cuz I want to wait till I'm married or at least engaged. Most guys however, probably wouldn't care.
2006-06-15 04:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by hepliin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLeeping with someone does not make you a sl#t!
I have no idea where that come from.
My opion is if you go around and tell, that makes you a sl#t.
Enjoy it
2006-06-15 04:11:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and what will the guy call himself 'a dog' cos i dont see why u should call a girl a slut just becos a guy slept with her after only a week, sex is sex and there's nothing wrong with that.
2006-06-15 04:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry what other people think, if you meet someone, and the both of you are wanting to have sex then go for it!!!!!
make sure you use protection.
P.S. where are you from? UK by any chance????
J xXx
2006-06-15 04:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by mad_jakey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋