I have a major crush on this girl in my class. We've had classes together for over two years now, but we only recently sat near each other and started talking. She's very friendly, but how do I know if she likes me or if she's just being nice??????? Are there any signs are should be looking for?????? If I met her at a bar I'd be so much more aggressive, but since she's my classmate I don't want to come on too strong, especially because if I make a fool out of myself I still have to see her everytime I have class. Any suggestions??????
2006-06-15 03:56:40 · 11 answers · asked by Joe Schmoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go n ask her
2006-06-15 06:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You tell her you like her, ask her if she wants to hang out. Being straight forward is not only confident (something all women look for in a guy) but it saves both people having to guess what the other persons intentions are.
Otherwise youre just playing games, trying to seem interested without risking your own ego, and thats a major waste of time and energy.
Just tell her you like her. Invite her to do something. The worst thing that could happen is she laughs in your face... then you know she's not worth your time, and you can move on.
2006-06-15 11:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to dinner some time, or a movie. Engage in more conversation as to emphasize interest in her and to find out stuff about her. I good idea would be to find out what her favorite food is, so when you ask her to dinner, you know what she likes. This both shows interest in her, and that you know how to listen to her. Listening is the best thing you can do for her.
But your best bet is to try and spend time with her. If she says yes to a date, then there is a great chance she likes you. You can even try walking her to her next class or to her car, or a walk in the park. It is all about the effort you put into it. you must make an active effort to show her that you like her.
If necessary, just come out and ask her about it. Remember, you only live once!
2006-06-15 11:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by soccerplayinjuggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're good friends with her already, start hanging out with her at lunch, etc. If you want to hint that you like her, try being nice to her, and if you're one of those smart kids and she needs help in one of her classes, then help her. A little kindness can go a long way.
And, if she doesn't like you right now, DON'T GIVE UP.
2006-06-15 11:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Casimir Alexander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, ask her to something non-threatening, like invite a few friends to go for a movie, and include her. Sit next to her at the movie, and if she acts like she had a good time, you can ask her again, maybe just the two of you.
2006-06-15 11:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by smartee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask. There's nothing wrong with asking. A closed mouth will never get fed ha?1!!
2006-06-15 10:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by tata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she's doing after class, at lunch, after classes...ask if she wants to get a coffee, pop, or whatever.
2006-06-15 11:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never tell if a girl is truly interestd as girls can even flirt as smartly as guys...if possible ask one of your guy friend to speak something ill about u to her,if she will protest then she is interested in you.
2006-06-15 11:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes nicer to you than she is to others, she might be interested. Don't EVER come on to strong, just be casual and polite. Maybe put on your white shoes.
P.S. Only one question mark is needed, thanks.
2006-06-15 11:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be URSELF.... be cool! be famous of somethng GOOD! yeah and u will get ur girl... well answer well in class IMPRESS her!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-15 10:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by rockist_depressed5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋