Cant get a girl friend?

Question

Im 27 years old and cant get a girl friend and never had one. People say im good looking im very emotional and tell women how i think they are wonderfull and how much i care about them and things like that, im kind and caring, should i try and be more tough and try to act hard or something?. Once ive told a woman how much i like her they then avoid me. Im not the kind of man that wants to mess about with loads of women i just want one, im tired of being lonely dont know what im doing wrong and confused.

Answer 1

It all depends how emotional when you tell them. I had a boyfriend once that started crying when he saw me in the sun-setting light say I was so beautiful, I couldn't handle it and for most of that relationship I wore the pants and I am a skirt kind of girl. I have known guys that haven't had a girlfriend until their 30s they did live in their parents basement but still good guys. You just need to find the right girl to appreciate you. I am glade to here there is also one man that is not a "player" out there, so stay the course and you will find her when you least know it. Good luck!!

Answer 2

First let me say don't try to be something you are not. Don't be the bad boy as tempting as it may be. Unfortunately for you the age group of women I am assuming you are looking at generally do go for the "bad boys".
From what you said in your question I can give you this piece of advice. You may be coming on too emotional and needy though. Even though a woman does like to hear nice things about themselves, there is too much of a good thing. Try to hold back a bit. A woman doesn't want to hear how much you care about them when you two aren't even a couple yet. Try smaller compliments, focused on her. Things like "you have such beautiful eyes" or "You are so much fun to be around". This way you won't be scaring them off before they get a chance to know you. Take things slow. I could go on forever, but I'm sure you don't want an 2 page answer. lol Drop me an email if you want to talk. Good luck.

Answer 3

I am in the same boat as you my friend... I have had a few girlfriends though, but somehow seem to get the ones that are nuts or are just after a fling. Don't women want relationships anymore? Atlanta seems to be full of women looking for flings or sugardaddies.

Answer 4

Woman are strange, they say they want a caring man, but all they do is go out with the hard *** types. My advise: While your just out dating to get laid, be the hard *** type...When you think it's time to find the right woman, switch back to the nice caring good guy thing. But like they say, "Nice guys finish last".

Answer 5

The best salesman convinces somebody to tell him what they want. Lead the woman. She is pursuing you whether you know it or not. Don't make it so easy for them. They will place no value on you. Just listening to your method grosses me out.

Act confident, in control and like someone they should want. Never ever be needy.

Answer 6

wow i think u sound so hott i don't know y u don't have a girlfriend because if i had a bf like you then i would be happy what do you look like? to bad your older then me just kidding. you should be a little tough but if the person does not like you in the begging then screw them.

Answer 7

women do want somewhat of a chase - act like you do not care - i have got more girls i like that way , then telling them how much i care for them before we were gf and bf - try it - good luck

Answer 8

u sound like a great guy dont change the way you are for anybody u just got to wait for the right gurl..
Oh and ill go out with you.

Answer 9

you need to be smooth but don't screw up itz easy of course you could go out with bat over there hehehehehehe (just kiddin)

Answer 10

if you just wait you will get the perfect one for you!!!

my mom told me her friend was just getting married for the first time when she was 34
and she had the perfect one for her