how do i keep him wanting more. i know that he talks to other "friends" and it drives me crazy. i dont want a serious relationship by any means, but i DO want to be the only one he is getting benefits from. Do i have feeling? YES!! but i am not ready to!! I stay the nite and we hang out all the time. we talk on the phone for hours. but i still feel like he is getting other benefits...
2006-06-15 03:46:43 · 11 answers · asked by JUST_ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl I know what you are going through! Good luck. These things happen when you take a friend and give them benefits. You feelings change and even though you may have cared about him before you have a stronger feeling now. You may feel like you want him to yourself. And you should be entitled to that, but guys see it a little different. He is in the best predictament he could be in cause rarely you fnd someone in which you are cool with and you are attracted to. He may feel the same way but he may be afraid that things will get too serious and then if it don't work you will never have the same friendship. I would tell him how I feel, but I wouldn't put to much pressureon him.
2006-06-15 03:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mstoria 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
y don't u just talk 2 him about it?!?! that's the easiest way-to have him know how u feel. now, do u know for sure he is getting benefits from other ppl? because u said u have a feeling like he is getting other benefits. this is the problem with friends with benefits-someone in the party will get feeling(that's breaking rule number 1!!!) this rule should never get broken!! cuz then issues would arise. but like i said just talk 2 him....your mind might just b driving u crazy for no reason..he might not be getting benefits from someone else
2006-06-15 11:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by nonono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are wanting him to be getting the only benefits from you, then that's no longer FWB. That's an exclusive relationship.
You may want to see how you are feeling and what you are feeling before chatting with this guy, you may find that your heart is pulling in two directions - where you do and don't want to be in a relationship with him.
2006-06-15 10:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by DW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is stop giving away your benefits to someone that does not want to take the position on head on and then just stop being so available to him don't call him and don't answer his calls hell wonder what did he do wrong! Good Luck and be safe!
2006-06-15 11:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may have more feelings for this guy then you anticipated. First you have to figure out what you want, if its him then tell him the worst that can happen is he says no. If you feel its too draining emotionally then I think you need to move on.
2006-06-15 10:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should try telling him that u want to be in a relationship ....but if that dosen't work out but u still have fellings for him be with him tell him u care about him but at the same time play the same game he's playing.....
2006-06-15 11:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by dirtydiamond2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See thats the problem with "friends with benefits" you're Friends and people are allowed to have more than one friend so if you whant to be more than friends talk to him about it.
2006-06-15 10:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by scholaryoshi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel he is having sex with others you have to decide how you are going to respond.
Its your choice. Personally I don't want to be sleeping with any disease he might get from having sex in several places.
2006-06-15 10:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't stop him from doing it but if you are in a relationship with him you can hope he will just go with you till then your just a booty call along with others
2006-06-15 10:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by snowboarder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving him benefits and see if he calls anymore. If not, he isn't worth your time. And please tell me you are using protection!
2006-06-15 10:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Halo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋