i n my boyfriend is very serious for eachother,vr in early twenties n doing post graduation together.when and how should we tell our parents about it as my parents wont agree(they are very strict).
2006-06-15 03:42:59 · 14 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is none of thre're business unless you plan on getting married if they object ignore it parents always want the best for their kids even if their kids don't agree. so don't make yourselves miserable if they don't like it it is some thing they will have too live with your old enough to make your own minds up and create a happy life for yourselves.
2006-06-15 03:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it a secret for as long as you can. I say this because any woman in her twenties who can't tell her parents she has a boyfriend (BF), has no freedom.
Or, sit them down and tell them you're pregnant. After they flare up and carry on, then tell them you aren't pregnant and about the BF and maybe it won't seem as bad.
2006-06-15 10:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what your parents think you are an adult and should be willing to tell you parents and not care cause it is your life and not theres tell them when you want to when it gets seriouse or when talk about marrage the soon the better cause then its over and don't have to worry about it any more
2006-06-15 10:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by snowboarder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it to them easy, start talking about "hanging out with this guy" and tell them that you think he's a great friend... after they see how happy you are with having this guy in your life as a friend, then break it to them, dropping the bombshell "i have a boyfriend" could make them a little shocked.
2006-06-15 10:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by JerseyBleu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing you have to remember is that when you tell your parents about your boyfriend make sure it is serious and make sure that you are firm and tell them that this is YOUR boyfriend and make sure you start talking to them about him before you introduce him so that they have already warmed up to the idea of you and a boy....let me know how everything works out...
2006-06-15 10:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by I Know I Know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them when you think they would want to know. Also, if you respect them and their opinion and you know this man has good character then there would be no reason to fear. You are old enough, right?
2006-06-15 10:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by DT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there is ever a correct time. but wait until there in a really good mood about things maybe. the way to word it is "i hve this really nice friend i would like you to meet"
2006-06-15 10:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an adult. Live your life on your own terms!
2006-06-15 10:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of asked them before you got together...it is called respect...
2006-06-15 10:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you think it could be it
2006-06-15 10:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by eve_polish_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋