Okay, so i am 14 and my boyfriend is 14 too. The other day i got in trouble two times because of him, one i was outside on the porch with him when no one was home, and the other one is when i ask if i could stay outside but instead i went over his, but to play some games with his sister.
after that he brung me back home and we stayed in the hallway for a min. then we kissed.
should i keep doing things like this because i love him or should i just stop before i get in some serious trouble?
2006-06-15 03:42:52 · 19 answers · asked by Amber S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really do love him and he loves me back.
2006-06-15 04:04:41 · update #1
Listen to ma & pa - they have your best interests in mind & they have seen a lot more of life than you have. Trust them.
2006-06-15 03:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by CDK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM 14 and know that being caught with your bf in an odd position with him can give people the wrong idea...so if you know your going to be alone with him around your house call up your parents to tell them or if there home tell them you will be outside with your bf... i dont know your parents so i dont know how strict they are...but my bf is 16 and my parents have given him to come over and see me any time...maybe you need to ask your parents when you two can spend time and see each other ALONE...LoL. Hope things work out.
2006-06-15 03:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by HideAnotherMistake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you get in trouble? its not like your sleeping with him or anything, where exactly is the bad, im sorry i dont really see what the problem is. i have a bf and i dont sleep with him but i love being with him and around him, my parents mind ya but i dont care, they cant run my life forever, but at your age i can see where they would get upset, but thats a little messed up, you going to his house to play games with his sis, and then you were outside, wow your parents must be strict, for that
2006-06-15 03:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No lies. Negotiate a deal with your parents. When can you visit with your friend who happens to be a boy? What if you invite him into your home when your folks are around and they see no hanky panky?
p.s., no such word as brung, and in the context in which you used it, I would say he walked you back home.
2006-06-15 03:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to stay out of trouble. Have fun, just know your limits and be very honest to your parents since you are still under their care! This is when they see if they can trust you, since you still have your life ahead of you, you need to start being responsible now.
2006-06-15 03:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by shan}i{ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy being 14 & listen to ur Mama & Dad. Ask your parents if u can invite him over, let your parents enjoy his company too. Include your time w/ ur parents & this boy. Your parents will respect you for being honest w/ them & it shows them ur growin to B a honest, mature person. Honest communication is the key. (atleast w/ ur mama..lol) And heck yeah, kiss the boy..just keep ur pants on!!
Good Luck Cupcake!!
2006-06-15 04:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by v0dou_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14 years old! you dont even know what love is. you need to slow down. there is nothing to tell you but dont you have any idea of what that might have looked like with you and a guy on your front porch with no one home? like i said slow down!
2006-06-15 03:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's fine that you want to see him, but you can't be sneaking around. It will just get you in trouble with your parents, then you won't be able to see him at all! Your parents love you and want to know where you are so they don't worry. You have to respect that. Best of luck to you and your boyfriend!
2006-06-15 03:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right you are in trouble ....need to stay away from him.Your tooo young to even understand the complex of a relationship and love is a very intense relation.You need to be away from all this and also inform him to not get physicaly involved.
Stay good friends this is not right at your age.God bless
2006-06-15 03:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on you. If your willing to get in trouble for the guy, then do let us stop you. If you don't want to get in trouble anymore, then you may have to stop it. Either way, it's your choice. Good luck.
2006-06-15 03:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋