What is up with things all the women my age seem to have at least 2 kids an prob another on the way and most of them have 2 or 3 men they reg sleep with, how do i expect to find a women when they all seem to be loose...lol sorry i don't mean that.. all i want is a nice girl who's nice?
2006-06-15 03:33:03 · 32 answers · asked by deuces1982 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's because you're old!
2006-06-15 03:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by im_a_stupid_ugly_person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have same problem but the other way round. Single woman with two children who can't find a nice decent man who doesn't have baggage and isn't an arsehole. I am 39 (which is well,well old) but I get told I'm beautiful. I still feel like I did when I was 16 and hate that age also seems to get in the way. Is the whole world going to end up single?
2006-06-15 04:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, why do you absolutely want to be with a 24 yrs old woman?!
You could date a woman between 20 and 28 years old, that wouldn't be strange at all.
I doubt many 20-21 years old woman have already babies, especially if they're students!!
Anyway, I'm 20 and will finish my studies when I'm 25, so no babies before and I don't think I'm the only in that case!(by the way I'm not single)
I can tell you most of my friends my age don't sleep with several men and have babies or all these things.So many people are just like you:single and waiting/looking for someone.
Don't worry too much, wait and she'll come ;)
2006-06-15 04:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by julia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my answer to your question is very deep because it's a question that I ask myself everyday. I feel the lack of a strong father figure in girls lives these days cause them to look for love and affection and acceptance in other men. Unfortunately it is through sex and false love. I have a newborn son and I am still with his father but I know that I don't want children with other men and I don't want to just sleep around with them either. However, I know that if my parents hadn't gotten divorced and my father was in my life on a daily basis, I probably wouldn't have been to willing to have sex at a n early age or have gotten pregnant before finishing school and getting married. My father is a wonderful man but he could only do so much rearing and protecting when he didn't have any input in my daily life. I don't regret having a child because he is a blessing but if my father had raised me instead of my mother, I have no doubt that I would have grown up with more morals and discipline.
I'll admit that women ar very easy and loose these days... I have a friend that is and they never want to change until its too late. (pregnancy or std.) Then they wake up. Just look really hard at a person's soul and heart. Even if she has a child or has slept with a few men(not hundreds!) that she wasn't in a relationship with, she can still be a wonderful person. It's just hard to see in some of them these days. Face it, some people's stuggles in life and situations hide what wonderful people they really are inside.
2006-06-15 03:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Nurse 2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u didn't specified ur age but it doesn't really matter coz u can expect woman having kids naturally till hers 40s so u will always find a woman at different age with kids.
for the fact they they are single parents doesn't mean they are loose, mean they are responsible adults, at the opposite of the guys that made them pregnant and didn't care for them.
as a guy u know what a man does to get a woman in bed, so much lies and work for later to get out, plus the government of England or USA are marring those mothers, thus creating a generation of bastards and creating also a generation of irresponsible men , that likes to ****, are ******* LOOSE and losers but yet, when they get old, look for that especial one, the not loose woman... Remember, a mother caring for a child is a hero, even though she has been a victim or an idiot for fallen on a ordinary man's hand.
2006-06-15 03:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jerome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old are you? What is up with that is that alot of women get tricked into thinking their current man is "the one". Or they have already been married and divorced like me. Or it could be that they are just "loose".Alot of women are. But it's probably because they fell for some jerk who promised her forever and then split when a kid showed up!As for the 2 or 3 men thing, i dont know because I have never had it like that! I could have but who wants to get all those names mixed up? Not me! Maybe you are just looking at the wrong women!
2006-06-15 03:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by Honey Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because guys your age aren't always nice. They had to have had a partner to get those 2 1/2 kids and some guy your age probably skipped town. And just because someone is a single mother doesn't mean that she's loose. Check yourself!
BTW, what's your age?
2006-06-15 03:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Huh? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because a woman has a child doesn't mean there loose or that they're a hoe or anything most young women fall in love(think they do) in high school give it up to that person and you know how guys i don't want to were a condom or the girl thinks it will make them stay together forever or some are just stupid and let the *** in them. then the guys are asshole and leave them.Now if they have 2-3 kids and from different dads that's different but don't always judge a women if she has kids it not always there fault get to know her first.
2006-06-15 03:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Justine G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A number of women by the time they reach 25-30 , if they are still single have emotional baggage, have children, or if they are attractive then they have had far too much male attention. Its a sign of the times. To find a girl who is 25-30 and is free of any baggage,children or history would probably make me think why not??
2006-06-15 03:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by welsh_darkhorse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't aware that single mothers couldn't be "nice girls" Just because someone has a child does not mean they are a whore. I'm a single mom and I lived with my ex for a year and a half. He had a problem selling drugs so I took my daughter and left his sorry ***. I haven't seen him in 4 1/2 years and my daughter is 5. I'm not sure that would make me not a nice girl. I think that makes me a strong independent woman that can take care of herself and her child.
2006-06-15 03:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by ??????????? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your age??? u forgot to put that and yes im 26 and have 4 kids by the same dad and now i have a boyfriend of 3 months and things r great.. about girls being loose well i dont know if u cant find a good girl maybe theres something wrong with u
2006-06-15 03:38:07 · answer #11 · answered by Diana K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋