About a year ago I finally got a chance to go out with this guy I have liked for a long time. We were together for only a little while but he was great. I even brought him into my house with my two children which is something I don't usually do. Both of them fell for him also. Well one day he just stopped talking to me and when I try tot alk to him he says he has some things he has to work on and he will get back with me. I'm afraid that he might not know how much I care about him. Should I tell him or should I just say forget it and try to move on? I really just want some answers as to what happened but feel by asking him he might think I was pushing him.
2006-06-15 03:11:21 · 8 answers · asked by cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should express your love
tell him know before it's too late
2006-06-15 03:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jubei 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've loved a man for thirty years and never told him, I've just been the good friend. It's very hard for me. He knows now because I'm older and wiser, but I still don't have the nerves to ask him how he feels about me...
My point is, it's better to get it out in the open now, and accept whatever he says. If it's not favorable at least you won't spend your LIFE wondering where you stand with him. Ask the tough question and deal with it!!!
2006-06-15 11:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can occasionally (once every couple of weeks) give him a call just to say hi & that you were thinking of him, but don't ask him out. It's still up to him. He can call & ask you out if he really is interested. Hopefully, your "desperation" vibe wasn't broadcasting; that'll scare a guy away faster than anything else. Keep interactions with him light & casual; in this instance, don't lay your feelings on him--it's not the time.
2006-06-15 10:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by angelwoodinn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart. If your not afraid of rejection ask him what is it that he likes about you. Be brief and don't rush him or else you'll scare him. Try to find the right moment and place to tell him what you feel. Set up a date and go out to a place where you will feel comfortable and not nervous.
2006-06-15 10:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Baldemar B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get another date b4 you go after him wiht i love you since he met the kids it probably scared him that he would be going into a relationshop with children that can get attatched to him and him to them adn he tought it best to leave b4 that could happen or he doesn't like kids and took off cause of that
2006-06-15 10:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by snowboarder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to him and work it out
2006-06-15 10:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by idkjustanothergurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is short play hard
2006-06-15 10:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by MARK C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u look here all i can say is get wats yours honey !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-15 10:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by natalie d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋