see i have an affair goin on wid this guy./but he is very scared nd shy.he always denies to talk to me whenm i call him bcoz his parents r dere wid him.nd these days he dosent even talk to me when we both r online at da same time.but his best frnd (whom i have a scret crush on now)gives me his news everyday.he says tat my bf likes me but he would purposely go offline when he sees me online.coz he is shy.i dont have ne feelings for him now but this other guy syas he does .i wanty to break up wid him but i dont wanna hurt my 'so called"boyfrnd's" feelings .HELP ME .WHAT SHOULD I DO? ND ALSO TELL ME WAYS TO BREAKUP.
2006-06-15 02:58:15 · 12 answers · asked by the gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like you already know what you should do - break up. if you aren't into the guy, then it isn't fair to keep him hanging on. if you don't, it will end up hurting him more in the end - and it will end up hurting you more too...
talk to him & let him know that you have had your doubts about the relationship, you've thought everything out & you know that it is best for the both of you to move on. make a clean break - take time off before trying to be friends (that is, if you want to try that).
2006-06-15 03:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by asherdaire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey love! Let me try and answer your question. It really doesn't seem like you need to break up with your boyfriend. It seems like he's showing signs that he's not too interested anyways. If you have to try this hard to get his attention... you don't need him anyway!! Apparently your heart has already answered your question for you. When a man loves you...he's not going to ignore you...or he's not going to be ashamed to spend time with you even in front of his family. You should never have to hide your feelings for the one your diggin!!! There are toooo many people out there in the world that would embrace your warmth...love...compassion and want to be loved... Focus your energy on someone like that who will appreciate all of those beautiful qualities.. You are too beautiful and have too great of a heart to be feeling like this... Always follow your heart my love and you'll never go wrong. It may hurt for a little but...but the heart is designed to heal and go on! You'll be alright.. and as far as your other friend that's trying to hit on you... be careful... it's better to keep that person as a friend..rather than lose him.. focus on the situation at hand and if it's meant for you to be with this other person it will happen...
"Let it go...and if it comes back 2 u then it was meant to be...if not... than his loss and go on... life is too precious to waste time."
I hope this answered your question... One love boo!
2006-06-15 10:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by carmelexstacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the guy stay with him if you are not sure, then tell your boy-friend that he should stop being shy and that you dont like shy guys. He should react one way or the other! You dont want to hurt them by staying with them just becasue you feel sorry. Be with someone that completes you!
2006-06-15 10:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is the worst thing you can do. Solving hard issues instead of running from them is the best thing. Work it out.
2006-06-15 10:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if you dont have any feelings left for this guy there is no point
trying to keep or revive this relation. be strate forward tell him that he is not the guy you are looking for. earlier the better. and let me tell you it is good for him also in long run. so you dont neet to worry about his current feelings.
2006-06-15 10:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by tushar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girl, but there's no easy way 2 break up w/anyone anymore. it's part of life just get on w/it.
u really should work on ur english by the way.
2006-06-15 10:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by sport_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what to tell you, you seem to got yourself stuck between a rock and a hard place.
2006-06-15 10:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by anvilsandinkstudios 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online relationships are hard to do but if he doesn't want to talk to you maybe hes talken to someone else. if the b/f is talken to you maybe he is interested in you. try to find out if he is still interested in you before you decide what to do.
2006-06-15 10:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by short_slim_betty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is really not a good way to break up with someone without breaking thier heart.
2006-06-15 10:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be STRONG and JUST tell him (with OUT any attitude) If you are mature enough to date then you should be ADULT enough to do the right thing.
2006-06-15 10:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋