your heart because of a past relationship. pleased help me
2006-06-15 02:44:00 · 6 answers · asked by M$. N!CK@ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK IT'S WRONG AND VERY UNFAIR. IF YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH HIM & HE'S IN LOVE WITH, WHY WOULD U LET HIM SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES OF AN OLD BOYFRIENDS MISTAKE?? I'VE HAD MY HEART BROKEN TOO, BUT WHEN I MET MY CURRENT BOYFRIEND, I REFUSED TO HOLD BACK BECAUSE I HAD BEEN HURT IN THE PAST. U SHOULD BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO HAVE SOMEONE WHO LOVES U AND IF U PUSH HIM AWAY, THAT WILL ONLY MAKE HIM THINK THAT U DONT LOVE HIM...DONT TREAT HIM LIKE THAT. PULL HIM CLOSER! THINK ABOUT IT!!
2006-06-15 03:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to spend some time thinking about why you're so afraid to be hurt. Could be something that happened in your childhood where you may have felt rejected or where you may have given your love freely and not have had it returned. Fear of abandonment? rejection? You need to deal with those feelings from your past otherwise you may be pushing the best thing that ever happened to you away. Talk to him about them, perhaps he has the same feelings over losing you. It's necessary to be able to open fully to the man you love. It brings you closer and he will understand and help you. Hope this helps.
A Mommy
2006-06-15 09:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by bRENDA l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have probably had your heart broken before and are scared. Dont push him away, enjoy it.
2006-06-15 09:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by arreis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your guard down don't make the guy pay for things in YOUR past. Start to create a future
2006-06-15 09:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont let your guard down, you sound just like me!!!! dont let it doen just gradually make it softer. Hunny let it down and they walk all over you!, think theyve broken the ice madens heart and theyve "got her" after that cums the not having to tray anymore!!! thats happened to me to many times. get caught up in it and let it down just to get walked over! so wot if your pushing away men love a game and a challenge. thats haif the reason hes with you. your a ***** and hard work and he loves it!. no man wants it handed to him, make him work.
2006-06-15 09:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by kinky t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him dont push him away because then your goin to ask yourself wat if .................so just go for it gurl let him know how you feel
2006-06-15 09:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by smilez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋