I have been dating this terrific guy for over 2 years. I love him to death. It is our last year at college and he wants me to move into a house with him and two other people. I would be sharing a room with him of course. A part of me wants to but then there is a part of me that thinks that by moving in together, even if it is just for a year, may be a bad idea. I mean what would happen if we broke up, would moving in together make us fight all the time over littIe stupid things. I mean you hear people say you dont really know people until you move in with them, then you start to see all the annoying habits they have. What should I do? Do you think it would hurt our relationship?
2006-06-15 02:38:03 · 5 answers · asked by raidernation12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think it depends on where yo uthink the relationship is going. are you guys going to get married at some point? this could be a good barometer to see if yo uare compatable.
2006-06-15 02:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by lizzie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I THINK AT ALL COSTS U SHOULD WAIT. FOR ONE "SHACKING" IS NOT PLEASING IN THE EYES OF GOD. U TWO R NOT MARRIED SO U HAVE NO BUSINESS SLEEPING IN THE SAME BED. AS FOR THE MOVING IN AND IT HURTING THE RELATIONSHIP, IT MIGHT DO JUST THAT. U WANT TO TAKE IT AS SLOW AS POSSIBLE SO U GET ALL UR FEELINGS TOGETHER. U SHOULD TELL HIM THAT U WILL THINK ABOUT AND SEE WHAT HIS REACTION IS. IF HE GETS MAD, THEN U MIGHT WANNA RETHINK UR ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP. IF HE UNDERSTANDS HOW U FEEL, THEN U SHOULD WAIT BECAUSE HE IS A GOOD MAN. HE WILL BE READY FOR THE WHOLE MOVE-IN THING ONCE MARRIAGE COMES INTO PLAY. REMEMBER THIS, DON'T COMPROMISE WHO U R(VALUES, MORAL, ETHICS) JUST TO PLEASE HIM. U DONT WANNA TAKE THAT BIG AND A STEP AND IT ENDS BADLY; JUST WAIT IT OUT . DO WHAT U KNOW IS RIGHT!! THINK ABOUT IT!!
2006-06-15 09:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might. You probably shouldn't. See what he lives like first- visit him at the house when he moves in. Make unexpected visits, too catch him off guard. Get to know how he does things, if he cleans, cooks, etc. A good man will not be a slob- that would cause his woman to nag him about cleaning and what not, and you don't want to argue over things like that later on- it could ruin your marriage God forbid.
2006-06-15 09:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's through that later on you'll really find it hard to move on once you break up with him. don't. the best way to maintain a relationship is for you to have extra space and time away from each other..wait until you two are ready to get married.
2006-06-15 09:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by warrior is a child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking this step would be too early
2006-06-15 09:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Drowned in English! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋