should I...?

Question

should I dump my bf? I mean i like him and all but I seem to like alot of guys right now. What should I do?

Answer 1

Dump him. Life is short, Live LARGE.

Answer 2

You have to ask yourself a few more questions before that one. How old are you? How long have you dated this guy? And, How do I feel about him compared to these others? These are some of the questions you should attempt to answer, then ask if you should dump him based on those answers. When we are young, we crave the attention of every guy. We think we love them all because they all have different qualities about them that are highlighted in your mind. You would love to put them all together to make one man, so instead you love something about them all. If you're still young, give yourself time to find a man with all or almost all of those qualities and get to know him well. It may just be that this guy may have them or most of them and you don't know him well enough to know if he possesses all of them. It's okay to like a lot of guys, but the heart gets damaged when we try to love a lot of guys at once.
Take some time and figure out what's right for you. No Hurry! No Worry!

Clarissa

Answer 3

well sweety before dumping him sit down with him and let himknow how you really feel you seem kind of young and if you are you shouldnt be in serious relationships you have an eternity to settle down. i'm not by anyway telling you to date every guy on earth but take you time have fun go out movies dinner etc etc you will some day meet that special someone and you will know in your heart he's the one for you for now enjoy your life and travel meet people new faces and get to know yourself 1st off and ask your self what are you looking for in a guy and in a relationship when you answer those questions then you'll be ready to get into a serious relationship and you won't be worrying about dumping anyone.Good Luck

Answer 4

If he treats you right keep him, there's no rule that says you can't have friends. I have a bf but i only let him come over twice out the week and i talk to a whole lot of other guys. All of my friends are males, and yes I tease and lead them on to get what I want but they are never made to do it. Truthfully, I have 2 bf, one is 18 and the other is 36 and i'm 30. they don't know about each other and when my cell phone rings they know not to question me. I tell them if there is a problem not to worry because just like them there is somebody else that will do what they do and more. My friends call me Ms. Pimp-yes the guy friends too.

Answer 5

Ok im gonna try to play doctor Phil here, It all depends how long you have been together, how old you are and how much life experance you have. I feel if its your first love it will crush you for a life time. Yea you'll get older and get over it but you'll still think about what you did for a life time. But hey if its not your first love fallow your heart. Ask yourself qustions like is he really intrested in you. ( does he only call when he only wants something) or ( does he call just to see how your days going?) ONE other thing you have to remember is there are other fish in the sea. Maybe this ones not the right one. Ask yourself those qustions, ponder on it for a day the once you make up your stick to it.

Answer 6

If you really love him, why dont stick with him? Focus your attention towards him. But be honest with yourself. If you think you're having doubts about your feelings and find a lot other guys more attractive, then tell him frankly. Its better this way that cheat on him while you're still together. This is more painful to him. Decide what you think would be best for you and him. Think a hundred times before deciding. If you decides to say goodbye to him, it would be very difficult to win him back again in case you have a change of mind.
Goodluck! :-D

Answer 7

Sounds like it might be a good idea. You sound like you are probably young and want to play the field. Think about it - years ago it was unusual for people to be going steady - people dated each other and more than one person in order to get to know people and find the right one. Of course, sex wasn't such a big issue back then either though.

Answer 8

You should weigh the pro's and con's. Before making any rash decisions, you should hang around each of the boys you like. This next part is a little tricky, but you should be able to tell who you have a better time with or who you feel most self-conscious around. It could go either way. You can feel uncomfortable around the person you like the most and have the best time with the person who would make a better friend, but you have to make that decision. Ask yourself these questions:

Who do always want to see?
Who is always on your mind?
Who do you think likes you?
Who do you have the most fun with?
Who makes you feel uneasy? (i.e. self-conscious, worried about appearance. etc.)

Answer 9

Dont dump anyone. Do u dump 1 billion if you get 100 billion. Never. 100+1 makes it 101. So dont dump him.

Answer 10

U CANT BE IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH UR BF IF U LIKE OTHER GUYS. IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE U R NOT READY FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. SIT UR BF DOWN AND JUST BE HONEST NOW. IF U WAIT & STAY IN THE RELATIONSHIP, U MIGHT FIND URSELF CHEATING ON HIM WHICH WILL CAUSE MUCH MORE HEARTACHE & DRAMA FOR THE BOTH OF U. ALWAYS BE TRUE TO URSELF AND WHATEVER MAN IS IN UR LIFE. THINK ABOUT IT!!

Answer 11

I think that you are still in teh stage that doens't involve even just a little settlement with BF. Well, you should dump him get to know otehr guys for futrue reference. Thats what I think...