i really like this one guy, but i don't kno how to tell him and i don't kno if he would love me back. i've known this guy for 5 years. i come to kno him really good and i might even love him. this is the guy that i want to have kids with, a life with. but i don't know if he wants the same...
2006-06-15 02:03:54 · 22 answers · asked by puffinnockin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one ever knows if their love will be returned.
You need to tell him how you feel- just ask him out and tell him. Have a beer if you have to.
How he feels will become evident then. Don't be afraid to take a chance!
2006-06-15 02:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Simply_Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a classic case of a friendship planted and love blooms. I think that if this is the case, then you have known each other long enough to know that you can be real with him. Let him know how you feel. Now, from your question, it didn't seem like you knew how you were feeling. You said, "really like", and "might even love him", might is a strong indicator of confusion. Search yourself and find out just how you feel and then if you know that it's love, you won't have any problem telling him that and accepting the response. Most people think that once you tell them and they reject you, then the friendship is over, not if you don't want it to be. This would only mean that you have a friendship with deeper feelings a much more respect for boundaries. Be brave and try to keep the friendship no matter what happens. You earned it.
Clarissa
Sylva, NC
2006-06-15 09:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by mrschloerichardson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of towns in the Netherlands (like the place where I live) need a place like Mac. Donalds. A large hamburger place that is always crowded and you can talk to a woman or a man whithout everybody immediately looking.
So if you happen to meet your ex and he is still angry - the whole world does not have to know about it.
also it is nice to have a coffee with teens that are growing up - and they sometimes need advice from older people. A hamburger place would liven quite a lot of places up.
Gossip also gets dismantled if people are able to ask a person outrght if something is true or not. But in the koffie-places here half the world would hear immediately what you are talking about.
2006-06-15 09:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is does the guy knows you? Well if he doesn't knows you, then, try to make friend with him to notice you. And if he knows you already, then try to mingle with him and go out. Learn more about him. And in this way, you can able to express yourself to him and who knows he might reciprocate to the feelings you have. Love always finds a way but you have to do something for love can move mountains.
2006-06-15 09:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Trisha143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for 5years of friendship and still this guy hasn't proposed to you is a sign that he really does not love you and as such you must accept this fact though it is pain because there is nothing you can do. Just avoid him for sometime you will over come the pain and start your life afresh
2006-06-15 09:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by jessica_abino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel. You don't have to blurt out "I love you!", just tell him you really like being with him, ask him if he feels the same way. Tell him that you have been thinking about taking your friendship to the next level. Also, instead of doing "buddy" activities together, think up something romantic...see where it goes.
2006-06-15 09:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Oh_That_Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can't encourage, force or hope someone will fall in love with you.
You should find out via friends and go out on some group dates.
Then if sparks and the feeling is there, you could date..
See how he feels.
Say positive comments to him, get his number, talk
You'll never know unless you find out how he feels about you.
Just ask.
2006-06-15 09:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by Robert Miller 95670 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him and if he did not like u then forget him before it's to late.
the sooner u forgrt the less u will hurt.
take my advise never fall in love with someone who doesn't loves u.it will make u soulsick.it will make u empty from love couse u will be just giving but not taking.
be very care full.
2006-06-15 09:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by dark_mad_shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might love him? Does that sound right to you? Slow down. If it is meant to be, it will be. Just enjoy life and not push yourself on someone that might end up using, abusing, and then leaving you sitting in terars by yourself.
2006-06-15 09:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by elfy1949 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out on a date someplace nice and start acting romantic with him. I don't mean jump in the sack, if you have not done that yet. I mean show him your feelings, and see how he takes it. you can see if he feels the same.
2006-06-15 09:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋