threathen to call the police because he's 18, and im 15. but im madly in love with him. he's my everything. we went through other problems to, regular relationship problems. last week he was locked up for robery and one of my friends said he said he wants nothin else to do with me. does he realy mean that? i mean we been through alot together......
2006-06-15 01:58:34 · 13 answers · asked by jasmine_wilridge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hon, please, please wake up and see what your life will be like being in love with someone that gets in trouble with the law like that. Ask yourself some questions. Do you want others to respect you? Do you want to respect yourself? Do you like having your body used by others for tempary gain? Are they telling others about how free you are with your body (they will lie to you and say they are not, but you are the gossip of the town when you abuse your body in this manner)? Do you want to have to raise a little on in a situation where you are not sure of the love and mental as well as physical support from the boy? Are you prepared to raise a child in a positive manner? Stop and think, if I was my child, what would I feel like having a child do what I am doing?
2006-06-15 02:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by elfy1949 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety~you are 15~you will have many more 'loves' w/less drama involved~you only THINK that you are madly in love with him~and if I was your mother, I WOULD have reported him~you need to think more on school, and less on boys!!! School will get you so much father in life than being pregnant at 15~and this boy, can not take responsibility~he is obviously trying to ROBB~it from others!! This is so not the right guy~and always remember, there are always going to be loves and broken hearts~but your friends will always be your friends~don't lose sight of what really matters in life~ Family and TRUE friends should always be there, do not push them away for some guy~they are looking out for your best interest and trying to show you, that,. this is NOT the way to go~Good Luck!!! :)
2006-06-15 02:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by click 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie why would you want to have to deal with this at 15. I know when you think you are in love with some one it is a hard feeling to fight. But you are 15, if you are going to have a boyfriend, find one who is not going to put you through so much, and who cares enough about himself to not get into trouble like that. I would say take this opportunity, no matter how much it hurts and stay away and move on to better things.
2006-06-15 02:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I know it's gonna be hard but ya gotta leave him alone. He is almost a grown man. What does he want with a 15 year old? Sex! Not to put you down but you are still a child. For you it's emotional.. For him it's physical... Move on and find a boy closer to your age. Don't be mad or upset with your mom...she loves her baby and wants to protect you from being hurt and used.
2006-06-15 02:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by jpezi1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just stressed out abt being locked up and said it in anger.But i really don't think you should waste your life behind someone who's been locked up for robbery at age 18.Is that someone you want to spend ur life with?have kids with.i don't think so you are young and have a whole life ahead of you.Focus on your education and you will find a decent young man who cares about you.
2006-06-15 02:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by mshollywood20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does not want anything to do with you because he is finally concerned about your age. I think it is best to end it. You will get over him in time and then realize it was for the better.
2006-06-15 02:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, I think you need to dump him. You are worth sooo much better then that!! Seriously. ROBBERY? And even if he didn't mean that, he wouldn't have said that. So tell your brain that you aren't in love, and move on. Seriously, I don't think you're "in love". And do it before you get hurt.
2006-06-15 02:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Quitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really need that trouble as a 15 year old try to think rastionaly and see if he really is what you need in the future
2006-06-15 02:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your life with somebody who is a robber.
2006-06-15 02:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are soo young to worry about this stuff...get out of your relationship before it gets any worse...
2006-06-15 02:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋