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My BF has an ex who he stop dating 3 years ago, he kept in contact while I was dating him 2 years ago and said they're just friends( which i disliked) so he disagreed with me and he start talking to her at a minimum. but we eventually broke up and a year later we are back 2gether and she still calls him, we talked about it so he doesnt call her n e more.But she still wants to call him even though he told her that he's back with me and he has a child. so Im stuck inthe middle of her keep calling and bothering him, playing on his phone and her getting other people to harrass us and its like I feel like I can't do nothing about it. she is very jealous because he had a baby from me and she had an abortion when they were 2gether, and also she probably still loves him. but i want to know what can I do or what should I do, since he not REALLY being a man?

2006-06-15 01:45:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

answer the phone yourself when she calls, be nice but formal and always make excuses (he's in the bathroom, his phone is with me at the moment, he's changing our baby's diapers etc etc) of course tell him you will do that before you start with it. Eventually she'll get the message that she's not welcome to call him any more.

2006-06-15 01:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by rinah 6 · 0 0

Well the next time she calls sweety, just let her have it becoz she obvioulsy has no respect for you or ur wishes. After you've told her off, and she still keeps calling just ignore the calls then maybe she'll stop. But did u ever consider that when u and ur b/f broke up that he may have been seeing/talking with her? Well u should cause that's possible. You also need to talk to him and make ur feelings very clear by letting him know that if the relationship between u 2 is to work then she needs to be out of the picture and you need to know from him, where he stands as it respects her because if he still has some lingering feelings for her which would probably explain why they are still friends then you'll have to move on cause sometimes when a guy still talks to his ex even though his new girl doesn't like it then it suggest that he could still love her and if given the chance, he would return to her so u need to be very careful and not allow either of them to make a fool of you.

2006-06-15 02:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

His life with her is over whatever the issues. He has a family now and if this contact is upsetting you then it affecting the whole family. His responsibility lies with you and your child. He should perhaps make it clear verbally with this woman with you present (even if you listen on phone) and then change his number. Further contact would mean he has broken his promise and then you need to address your relationship. He needs to stop contact with this woman ASAP not only for you but for her too as it cant be healthy her behaviour. Document the harrassment from her and others and get an Order out if you have to

2006-06-15 01:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if he really didn't want her calling his phone trust me she wouldn't be calling. Your bf has a lot to do with it. Being that he doesn't want to get a back bone and be a man to just straight out tell her not to call make him decide whats important if he really cared he would change his phone number and NOT give it to her. Relationship have enough problems everyone couple goes through there ups and downs why would you want to add on to the stress. You two have enough to worry about with a child you don't have time to play these little high-school games. And when your bf does nothing to put her in her place its showing her she still go him in the palm of her hand. She doesn't have to be in the picture to interfere in your relationship

Why would you want to be friends with your ex ?

2006-06-15 01:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by a_bug 3 · 0 0

He would nicely be doing it as a fashion of administration over you, like only because you 2 broke up you bypass out of your way or perhaps develop into dissatisfied only because of him. that's a administration component he enjoys seeing he nevertheless has it over you. next time it takes position do not answer, tell your associates that you received't answer ANY calls coming from an unknown or constrained volume. And in case you acquaintances opt to arise with you that undesirable they could be able to leave an message.

2016-10-30 22:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

well, i would say talk to him first, again. tell him you dont like her calls. i personally believe that any contact with the ex will lead to problems. you can NEVER be "just friends." my boyfriend was the same way, he would still keep in contact with her. i told him how i felt and of course he said "just friends." after a while of our relationship, she kept calling and calling. i couldnt take it anymore, so i spoke with him again that he has no business with her. and how would he feel if my exboyfriend kept calling me. i told him its either her or me. we didnt talk for a few days. and then called me to apologize. he talked to her and told her not to call anymore because it wasnt right, it was ruining our relationship. so just talk to him. good luck! ♥

2006-06-15 02:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 0 0

Punch her in the boobs

2006-06-15 01:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

share

2006-06-15 01:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by seeker 4 · 0 0

do wrong as you not think before....

2006-06-15 01:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

cat fight!

2006-06-15 01:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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