so wht kind of questions can i ask him... apart from. wht are his expectations from me, his goals, why do you think your past relationships have failed?, Do you have a happy stable home life?, Are you happy with me? Do u do dishes, work a washer and dryer? Do you have or have you EVER had an addiction/s?
u ppl gettin me... soooooooo HELP........
2006-06-15 01:03:42 · 10 answers · asked by victoria... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
y do you have an arranged marriage..............thats dumb.
2006-06-15 01:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by smoochy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds as though you are OK with the arranged marriage thing, so I'll leave that alone, the first thing you will need to find out is if he will communicate with you and to what degree. You will need to learn from each other where all the lines should be drawn (what is acceptable and what is not) It is equally important you know how he feels about the laws you lie down. Make agreements and come to understandings on as many points as possible. The more you do that the more you will understand where each of you are coming from and what to expect. Good luck
2006-06-15 08:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My apologies I didn't realize arranged marriages were still around. To be honest look on the bright side though. You didn't have to go through the trails of finding someone not completely a dumb ***. pardon the term. Now to give you suggestions I'm still realatively a newer wife so these are the things I talk to my hubby about How's work? Our son? ( maybe later for you) We both try and read something in the news and discuss that is a topic. Also, one of the things I love is there is a great book called Kokology. They are psycological games so it gives you an idea of what he's like. Good luck though
2006-06-15 08:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Cbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is not ask questions but tell him what you expect of a marriage ,say you like your freedom ect and see what his reaction is....
I must say that most arranged marriages i know of have lasted where as those who meet and choose their own partners have not ,,but just make sure you get a tingling feeling and some kind of attraction.. towards him..
2006-06-15 08:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by kathy_madwoman_bates 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is an arranged marriage, that means you have no choice but to marry this guy ? If you have no choice, then why bother asking him questions ? Is it going to make any difference ?
2006-06-15 08:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by voodoo97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him likes & dislikes . Try to understand his views slowly . First make him as ur best friend . Then u and him will be made for each other.
2006-06-15 08:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can ask him what makes him happy, does he want chidren, if so how many, how does he feel about animals, does he hsve pets or want one? you could ask him if he had a choice would he still marry you,
2006-06-15 08:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry. Accept it, and make the best of whatever situations arise....
2006-06-15 08:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Chiron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was up for arranged marriage, he left me saying i was too fat for him....men!
2006-06-15 08:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by kiss2envy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT fed him up with ur q(????)s
2006-06-15 08:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋