I am worried about First night of marriage!?

Question

I am going to be married, I am so wrried. What will happen at that night? How should make her happy? what can make her sexually happy? How can I statisfy her sexuall? What should I do to statisfy her sexuall? Please help me I need your serious commenst and suggestions

Answer 1

Well, she will want to have all out sex with you, but, you will have a headache, and tell her you are having your period.

Answer 2

Your wife to be will probably be just as nervous as you, so it's ok. There is a lot of hype that surrounds the all important 'first night', which probably adds to your anticipation. The most loving thing you could do is to be honest with her. Share your feelings, and let her share hers with you. You might find it is easier, too, to have a 'first night' on the second or third night, as the excitment of the wedding day will probably make you both very tired, and might end up taking away from the experience, rather than adding to it. Gentleness is the key, too, with yourself and her. The events of that 'first night' might even become something for the both of you to remember fondly in your old age, and possibly even chuckle about.

Answer 3

Making love is like a delicate dance of recripication. When you get to the point where you are unsure it's ok becuase you both love each other and you are both probably at the same level. I think you need to be honest I mean My husband and I were virgins and our first night we laughed taking off each others clothes because we had so much birdseed crammed in them we went back into the kitchen to undress so the birdseed would fall on the floor where I could sweep it up. lol Just relax and have a good time and enjoy yourself don't worry! .Like it says in Hitchikers guide to the galaxy.... Don't Panic!. Have fun with it. Be gentle to your mate and make sure you are lookin out for her and she will recropicate.

Answer 4

Well , i think every one gets LITTLE tense about the first night but you can't make a issue out of it. After all you are in love with each other and first night is nothing but love. So what if you have to love physically, i think it comes naturally if you love a person like you love yourself. Just remember if love care and respect can make you happy, it will difinately make your partner happy too. So enjoy the natural flow of your love.

Answer 5

Me and my husband were both as nervous as you are. If this is her first time she'll feel the same way as you I'm sure! Just relax and go with it and learn to laugh at your mistakes. You'll make lots but they're the good kind of mistakes. Be loving and gentle with each other and everything will turn out fine.

Answer 6

Relax. You have many nights ahead of you and learning about each other will be fun. Pay attention to what makes her happy. Always remember that if the woman is happy, you will be happy. She will help.

Answer 7

if she is marrying you, you should be secure that she already loves you and is satisfied with you. You will be too tired from the days activities to have a real "lovefest" the first night anyway.

Answer 8

You need to solve these questions BEFORE marriage

ask her what she wants/needs

are you THAT stupid
what had made her happy in the past

Answer 9

Let go of all your inhibitions about sex and relax. She married you because of what you had inside. I promise the sex will come and will get better as time marches on.

Answer 10

Is it your first time with a woman? Is HER first time with a man? If both answers are yes, than you should not worry. She will be as worried as you are. You have to get confidential with her first and then she will tell you herself what she likes.