Please I need Born again christains to answer this.Is it a sin to cuddle with one you are engaged to when the both of u are not yet married?
2006-06-15 00:25:49 · 37 answers · asked by chazaq07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no as long as it does not lead to sex.is like cuddling your 4rend or family.
2006-06-15 00:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As strange as it may seem cuddling and kissing your partner especially before marrying them reassures both of you that this match is perfect. People don't realize until after they are married the little things that can cause them to think twice about what they have gotten into. I know it seem rude but we are just human and there are things that irritate us. Note I'm not born again but I'm pretty sure that the big guy is more concerned about everyone's happiness and a sin shouldn't be cuddling. There's more sins worse then that.
2006-06-15 00:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you asked whether it's a sin or not, I would say yes. Why? because you haven't married yet. Eventhough you are engaged now. There is always possibility that the engagement doesn't end in marriage. So i think it would be safe for you to cuddle, after you tie the knot.
2006-06-15 00:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Levi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a born again but people have relied to much on what others say they should or shouldn't do when it comes to natural feelings and emotions. Go ahead and cuddle, it only means there is a bond between the both of you. For me the stress reducing benefits far out way what some religion says I shouldn't do. Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-15 00:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by ndvsne1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a sin you'll be okay. You're doing the right thing and marrying this person even though you are saved you want to marry someone who is loving and affectionate. Cuddling is allowed in courting and kissing is okay too. A christian knows when to say goodnight and he'll understand. Congratulations on your engagement!
2006-06-15 00:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What could be sinful about cuddling? Even if you did have sex, I do not understand what would be the problem. You want him, he wants you... it is the most beautiful thing... God did not make up marriage... people did! Actually marriage is not natural at all, but the society imposes it... Just don't believe everything priests tell you... they are human also, meaning corrupt, and they are sometimes the mos perverted ones... hypocrites!
2006-06-15 00:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a born again Christian but I've been to enough church to know that cuddling is just as safe as kissing and hugging. All it is is just a long intimate embrace. Just keep your clothes on and don't kiss while you cuddle cause that might lead to temptation to do other things. I hope it all works out well for you.
2006-06-15 00:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not as long as you stop with cuddleing. Things can get out of hand rather quickly, but holding each other, kissing, and enjoying each other is not a sin, but the clothes must stay on.
2006-06-15 00:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by solomonswisdom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not. In some religions even touching a woman before marriage is a sin. If you are part of one of these religions then be careful. Otherwise enjoy and make the best of it.
2006-06-15 00:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it will be tempting to cuddle in an abscure place because you may end up making love which is a sin but doing that in public will not be for sex motive but for admiration.
2006-06-15 00:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by jessica_abino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by cuddling it could be a sin
2006-06-15 00:30:34 · answer #11 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋