2006-06-15 00:19:18 · 17 answers · asked by Gal2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
PATIENCE to realize that ment know nothing and are nothing but large children. Love your man like you would a child. LOL
2006-06-15 00:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by Cathy P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all give and take. First decide what you want out of the relationship as a wife. From there, set you plan of action to make it happen. I don't like doing all the things I have to do as a wife, but the reward of his appreciation makes it worth while. Also, have as much sex as possible - even when you're "not in the mood" sometimes. My husband find that if we aren't having enough sex, we subconsciously nit pick at one another - and you know men - they HATE when we nag!!
2006-06-15 00:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Mande 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serve and Respect your husband unconditionally.
Do not shout at him or yell at him - especially in front of the children or friends. Keep control of your mouth.
Do not criticise him openly - and always resolve conflict in a quiet place where it is only the two of you behind closed doors (like the bedroom) - not when he is with friends or in the presence of the children.
Do not share your marital problems with everyone - especially your friends. Rather find one or two trustworthy and mature people that you can confide in.
Submit to your husband, and support him as the head and leader of the family.
2006-06-15 00:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by vusimhl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'...A good wife should be like a child in exhibiting her affection, a mother in caring for her man's well-being, a friend in giving him counsel when needed, and a shameless siren when it comes to physically pleasing him.'
- Quote from the Righ Veda, an ancient Hindu scripture, dating to around 2000 B.C.
2006-06-15 00:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man was crazy about me, did alot to make me love him, before marriage, he followed me from one country to another, he gave many presents did so many wonderful things to earn my heart, and he did, and we got married, but i had the worst marriage of all. 2 years fighting, screaming, hitting eachother , EVERYTHING that's bad.. i left my house manytimes, but meanwhile i was litrally growing, and i learned than paintence is ALWAYS rewarding.
Marriage is something you HAVE to work on, because you can not be perfect, your man too, so you grow together, the best for you to do from which i learn is:
- Love your self first but not selfish, then love him, do NOT ignore your self, seriously pamper yourself, if you love yourself he will love you
-Men changed, STEEL change with time, but play it right, the best way to change him to be a better person is change yourself, if you want him to do something, don't ask him, show him you when you do it, so it's ACT not TALK
- Explain, trust is there, but you must explain , use long sentences it's ok , coz sometimes little misunderstanding ruin lives, besides people don't have crystal balls, you have to explain, he will copy you and remove all doubts and misunderstading
-be nice to his family but not too good
-seriously don't talk much, why!! why revealing so much.. No need
-give him room for himself , and YOU suggest he sees his friends, he will do the opposit and will prefere spending more time with you, what's forbiddin is desirable, if you forbid him or showed you don't like him seeing his friends, he will insist to see them, bottom line, do not trap isolate him .
-Patience patience patience, and don't torture yourself, with bad eating habits, or less beauty .. florish and light up everyday.
Remember. the more you ignore yourself and abuse yourself, the more he does...
2006-06-15 00:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say u should trust your husband blidly. remember, if he is your husband , u r also his wife..
Dont doubt his intentions, any time
stand by him in his difficult time
Do what ever he wants
Dont lose patience
Respect him and see that others respect him
You can try the above.....it works.........but u got to be patient
You will automatically get the respect and love from him...all the best :)
2006-06-15 00:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by sunil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, consistent blow jobs. I just come home and give him one after he has had a long day. Or after I go shopping. He shouldn't have to ask. That will keep a man happy forever.
2006-06-15 02:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by wine0queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When things don't seem to be going right whether it being that day or all week in his domain everything is just fine. Don't add to the stress.He's the MAN
2006-06-15 00:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking a question like that for a start.
someone who listens, laughs, shares, cares.
and still has the self confidence to be themselves.
someone that understands that men are human and we often fail.
2006-06-15 00:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by tigger says 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should have all the patience available in the world..be with him through thick and thin..dont ever expect them to change..
2006-06-15 00:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by Deep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋