Heres the thing.. Theres this guy at work and we flirt all the time.. Hes touchy when he flirts sometimes which kinda made me think he was interested in me...
In passing las week ke said :when are you going out next?".....
Not knowing if this was a point of discussion or an invitation to go with him I went away and thought about it..
A few days later I said "when are we going out?".... He said "when do you want to go out?" then he went on to explain how he had to go away for the weekend. He also mentioned something about an ex which is basically him confirming that hes single right?
Anyhow I foolishly wrote my number on his hand.... We agreed to go out possibly in a group outing in a few weeks..
My question I guess is... Do your think he is seriously interested or would he have washed my number off last week?
Men are confusing.. I realise that he probably wont use the number in a hurry because we see each other nearly every working day..
2006-06-14 23:10:43 · 15 answers · asked by Tracii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well a lot depends on the type of personality he has in my opinion as far as how things will go next. From the way you explain things it definately sounds like he is interested. The question really becomes is he arrogant, confident, shy, intimidated... etc. These things will predict how he next acts.
I for one am a more shy type of guy, and easily intimidated by women I don't know well. I guess I lack a certain confidence level. So, in my case, it might take me longer to use that number until I felt assured Iw ouldn't be making an idiot of myself.
My friend however if much more confident to the level of being slightly arrogent. He would have no problem calling you, but would need to fit you in his schedule. Seeing that you would be around each other at work often, there would be no need to call to maintain your intetest, just to make the date.
Well I hope this helps... just my opinion...
2006-06-14 23:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a Flirt, but being a man myself, I'd have to say, go out on the group outting first and try and get to know him better. Most of us guys like to fool around without taking anything to heart. Try and find an apropriate time, like the next time he flirts or when yur alone on the outing to ask him how he feel about you and if he's serious. If he start sweet talking, be careful.
On the other hand, confirm that he's really single and if you like him, go for it.
2006-06-15 06:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he likes you, but it seems to me like this guy likes the thrill of the chase and by you asking him when you were going out kinda ruined it for him. it like you said 'here i am take me'
believe it or not, guys do like the chase. now, the number thing, don't see the point in you doing that if you see him everyday. chances are he washed it off. the 'ex' thing can mean a number of things like, 1- he is letting you know he is single 2- she is still somewhat in the picture. my advice would be to go on this group outing and if he is there, do not pay too much attention to him.
remember, if he really likes you, let him come to you!
2006-06-15 06:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can not judge if a man is serious just after he took your number. it is not normal baby. u re too needy. men don't like this type of women. he doesn't know whether he is serious about u himself. he maybe just is thinking whether to call u at all. so take one step at a time - if he calls be nice and try to make him fall into u. if he doesn't call - do not make such a big deal of it. pretend nothing happened. and please never mention this thing about u writing your number on his hand. u will appear needy. that will push him away for sure
2006-06-15 06:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from what i read he is intrested in you ! go you! he will proabably ask you when are we going out? or how are you since he probably did wash your number but every one washes there hands now and then so its not his fault really just firlt with him back and ask how is he maybe you 2 will just like each other maybe even love each other
2006-06-15 06:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probally doesn't want to seem too forward give him time and what ever you do go out in a large group first of all he might get scares and do a runner
2006-06-15 06:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by bigian1179 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over the flirting stage and start talking to him. Ask him if he's involved with anyone. If he won't ask you out, forget him.
2006-06-15 06:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Munster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is interested in you but not sure so he is hesitant , if you are interested in him take a lead and rope him in.
2006-06-15 06:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by shady_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you are a back-up plan for when he needs a piece of ***.
2006-06-15 06:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have noted down that no. and will definately call you....
2006-06-15 06:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋