I have a boy f living far away. Due to his attitudes, I thought that he disregarded me, thus I proposed friendship if he couldn't explain his attitudes.
In his email reply, he appologized for things he did and said: "but we can be friends or?". Then I replied him and forgive him, proposed to be lovers again and asked for his opinions.
What did he mean by OR?
Should I send him sms to ask him check email or just wait? (note: i don't want to call him, and don't know when he checks email)
2006-06-14 23:07:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You have to ask him what he meant or you will never know. Communication is very important in a relationship.
2006-06-14 23:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I agree with the guy that said that "If you love someone you have to set them free. If they come back, they loved you, if they don't it was never meant to be." or something like that.
You are in a difficult position and I can't give you a precise advise for I do not know what you mean by "disregard". I say that a relationship on the letter or e-mail does not really work. "Far from the eyes, far from the heart." that is what I think.
Better put the heart at peace and stop thinking about him...
2006-06-15 07:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by narcissa_bl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...the only advice I can think of would be to quote my mom's old sampler (stop me if you've heard this one before):
"If you love somebody, set them free. If they come back to you, they're yours. If not, they never were."
Or as she'd always say:
"If it was meant to be, it'll be, kiddo!"
Now, most likely, when your boyfriend asked, "But can we be friends or..." he really meant, "Will we keep having sex or keep it platonic?" Myself, I've been with my girlfriend for a long time -over ten years (we don't believe in marriage or bringing kids into this f--ked up world)...we've had our ups and downs, but I define myself as an 'atypical male'...I get an "A" in fidelity; I am a big believer in women's rights and independence and I get neither jealous nor possessive. I have way more respect for women that I do for men. Don't get me wrong; 99.8% of men really ARE scum -blame the penis- but I pride myself on being the exception to the rule.
Hope that helps...
2006-06-15 06:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by J.A.R. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be lovers in the sms or internet? I suspect you haven't even met the guy yet. Get a life for Pete's sake.
2006-06-15 09:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is living far away and he might want to be your boyfriend or no you are trying to read between the lines...you should wait ...if a guy want a girl So much he will do anything to show her but if he did not show any signs then he doesn't deserve you will find one guy who love you and appreciate you...and i ask your self how many time you check your e-mail for his answer because you care !!! but does he check his e-mail anxiously like you?!!
2006-06-15 07:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by nina_prettybalerina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal thats is normal altitudes so if is not ready to chande so call it quite and find someone you can love you because you deserve that so stop wasting you time think because maybe he find someone else there so be fifty is not 100% if he cares for you there is alot of ways to deal with it so the ball is i your court anywhere you want it to be it will be?
2006-06-15 06:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to give this dude up... send him a message saying you have enough friends and more on.
2006-06-21 17:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sara K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a sms right away dear
2006-06-15 06:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there girl!!
Ermm...I think your dude mistyped...^_^
Thats all. anyways the sentence doesnt make sense.
2006-06-15 06:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eish could you explain yourself i can't make sense of what you're trying to say
2006-06-15 06:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by DZEDZEA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋