i've always been into guys who groom well,that is in dress sense.but i met this awfully swit guy,am at ease with him and he's so nice.problem is,he doesn't have a taste in clads.should i tell him to change,let him be or leave him for one who satisfy's that need?
2006-06-14 22:57:00 · 7 answers · asked by blackbeauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah you can tell him to change but if that he really is then don't, because maybe he just want to be who he is.
2006-06-14 23:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by ken_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not take him shopping or criticize his way of dressing. He is what he is. Do ask him if he thinks he looks like he wants to or would he like some help with a make over because "you kinda sense he may be looking for a little advise". That way he's not under pressure or embarrassed and you will be able to see if/how important (A) His appearance is to himself (B) How important you are to him; because if he don't pick up on how important it is to you after you ask, he never will. He will just view you as a nag that's trying to change him- and if you do more than that, he's right.
2006-06-14 23:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aquantant
2016-11-01 09:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by forson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him shopping ...lol. There is never a better way to do things or get the message across unless you talk to him.... but in a respectable manner. Im sure he will appreciate your advise if you advise him in a positive way!
Also remember: its not about the way he dresses.... its about him!!
2006-06-14 23:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how close is your relationship? if he's a friend or qualify as a BF, you have the right to change the way he dress, dat's a GF's job, to change us guys. If he's just an aquantant or less close, let him be.
2006-06-14 23:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are different if you do love him so you can still help him to change because we learn everyday.so help him. or another thing is you can buy him one and give him as a gift and tell him to wear it so you see how he will feel about it or what do you think?
2006-06-14 23:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him honey, take him shopping and tell him what you wud like him to wear.
if you LOVE him, accept him as he is.
2006-06-14 23:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋