i'm an indian guy who is hindu and i love this pakistani girl who is muslim. we have been dating for like 1 yr. i love her so much and i think she feels the same. her parents know me as just her university friend not her boyfriend. i just wanna spend my life with her but i am worried wat her family and friends would say, wat should i do?
2006-06-14 22:53:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can i have views of muslim people
i dont want to change my religion to islam, my parents would kill me if i did this
2006-06-14 23:05:06 · update #1
NO ITS NOT the pakistan men would kill u
2006-06-15 22:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by rocky 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Talk to her about your feelings toward her and discuss the importance of religion to her parents and to her. How important is the Hindu religion to you? You will both have to make a decision about how you will raise your children if and when you do decide to marry. After you have this talk and decide what to do, then let the parents know that you are not a university friend, but a serious marriage prospect for their daughter. Face the realities and the truth and be up-front about it.
2006-06-14 23:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you think she feels the same...make sure you know.
the differences of hindu and muslim should be discussed between both of you with a clear understanding of these and a clear understanding of the importance it is to the parents.
it is difficult to know how much either of you are willing to give up if you had to give up something in order to stay together.
when you know these answers, you may decide to let parents openly know about the real relationship or to spare them any anguish.When You Know These Answers.
Parents may be helpful to show you possible pitfalls that you dont foresee, and you both can work out how you will handle these things.
I am neither Hindu nor Muslim-I may not know what I need to, to answer this question to your help.
Best to you both
2006-06-14 23:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by baghmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother (British) is happily married to a Muslim Pakistani girl. They too started their relationship pretending to just be 'friends' from Uni. Can't lie to you - it's not gonna be easy. My brother didn't convert to Islam but he did learn about the religion as it was a requirement from her family if they intended to take the relationship further. Her immediate family didn't attend their (civil) wedding but eventually they accepted my brother and they've been together for about 20 years now.
They are the only couple on the planet I can truly describe as 'soul mates'. Marry her. Be happy :-)
2006-06-14 23:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a muslim my self, i would say a muslim women is not allowed to marry a non-muslim therefore will have to become a muslim, but if you do enter islam u must do it wholeheartdly,not just becuase of marrying this girl.
i would advise you for you to study islam, and decide otherwise if u marry without being a muslim her marrige will be invalid and on the day of judgement she will be held responsable for this sin.
if u become muslim then it shouldn't be a prob.
pls visit these websites
http://www.islamalways.com >>> listen to the radio
http://www.watchislam.com >>> video clips
i hope Allah guides u
2006-06-14 23:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by sabrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should discuss this with Ur girlfriend. Because she is the only one who will be directly effected by ur any decision. Discuss this with each other and then decide b'coz its ur lives & no one can decide for u. If u luv her then get her. No matter what's ur religion is. If ur cofident that u can spend ur whole life with her, with all odds then go ahead. Best of luck and clear all ur doubts before taking any decision.
2006-06-14 23:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both feel comfortable with one another just talk to your parents(check your age or wait for some more time). If they dont accept and its hard time for you guys, but you can make it.
concentrate on the career TOO
2006-06-14 22:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Praveen P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-28 16:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better tell her family your real relationship so you'll know what they'll reaction will be. I believe that as long as they'll know your good intention to their daughter, maybe they'll accept you for they're daughter so better try it.
2006-06-14 23:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hallo my dear hindu frind follow your heart. if she loves you too as you said so you two are better than one so do he necessary.
its your choice ?
2006-06-14 23:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead love win the war yaar. srk ka koun sa picture tha......veer zaara
2006-06-14 22:58:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋