2006-06-14 22:47:24 · 21 answers · asked by rachel m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice guys are normally gay. What you need is a guy who is generaly not nice, but is nice to you.
2006-06-14 22:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by daniel m 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because there is no such thing. You can search to the ends of the earth and not find a "nice guy". Think Ponce de Leon and his search for the Fountain of Youth - nice try, but no cigar. You might limit your search and try to locate an "acceptable guy." Although still difficult, success is possible - if you are willing to bend a little.
2006-06-15 05:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a nice girl.
An old saying says,
" What we see is derived from what and how we think about someone/something "
It's the paradigm on what we all operate.
If you are left alone in an island for a long time
another lonely ugl beggar / bast*rd could be so nice dear.
2006-06-15 05:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by kanuuscbe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfless, genuine people are an uncommon species! Most people despite what they may say are very self-interested and have a definite agenda when it comes to most things in life, particularly relationships. They are interested in what they can get out of it not what they can give. We are very fortunate if we meet someone who is not only a generous and kind person but also shares our interests, desires and passions.
It's not easy to meet a nice person unfortunately but that is no reason to give up. Continue to develop yourself in every way and continue to be a selfless and genuine person and eventually someone will acknowledge you for who you are.
2006-06-15 06:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
List your expectations and I'm sure you'll be told.
Nowadays a girl expects a guy to be like 'nice boyfriend' in a television sitcom.
And... Nice guys became extinct along with the nice girls.
2006-06-15 05:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Norman Bates 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are some nice guys around, but maybe you just got to wait paitently. You might not be a Christian, but i usually pray in those situations to Jesus. From Kathikas friend Naomi
2006-06-15 07:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cute kit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It s really difficult..maybe you are looking in the wrong place. If you go out and meet guys in clubs and bars you can only expect that most of them will be of the kind that is constantly on the piss, trying to pull girls. Try to meet guys at more neutral places like your local swimming pool (what you see is what you get-bod wise ;) or your supermarket. Just have your flirt antennas out everywhere-not only if you go out! Godd luck.x
2006-06-15 05:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women I know that ask this very question overlook 'nice guys' and consider them too boring. Nice guys dont offer them a challenge. Without a challenge, there's nothing to try to retain or strive for. Instead they tend to hook up with the 'jerk' guy that makes them chase him and cater to him for fear he'll lose interest and find someone else.
2006-06-15 05:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by sixstring9702 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For the moment dont focus on finding mate or it will never happen, just be happy with friends and eventually it will happen.
Also be sure you are 'out there' (meaning not on your pc all the time or you will not meet).
2006-06-15 08:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not looking in the right places. Stay away from bars and night clubs. Go to places where you know the men will be respectful!
2006-06-15 06:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by yourmother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur obviously looking in the wrong places their are nice guys out there ive found mine and were getting married in a few years time
2006-06-21 09:39:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋