Is it ok for a married man to love and have affair with another married woman when woman also loves that man.?

Answer 1

Oops I would say stolen water is usually Sweet and very enticing; but the results or the fruit is as bitter as death!!!
To begin with, when such a tendency presents, know it's an indication of an underlying problem;When things at home no longer are exciting, there is always a temptation to jump the the fence hopefully to find a better/greener ground to 'may-be' spruce up a dull situation. Subconsciously, one is distracted and as is normal with human beings,try to justify the actions. Before even asking if it's, OK try to check if there is an unresolved issue. If there be, work out a solution first and see if the pull will still be there.
It's an out-right no to be in such an affair. It will NEVER deliver what it seems to be promising. Though people may endorse a wrong, that doesn't make it a right. Please check it's death sugar- coated!!!!!!

Answer 2

I do not think once has a choice over one's feelings and attractions to another human being. Of course, when one marries, one has made a promise to the other, to not love any other woman/man above the spouse.

So I think while it may be alright, or unavoidable, to love another, even while married, it is not alright to continue in the affair.

I say this not only because it is wrong to do this to your spouse, or wrong for her to do that to her spouse, but because it is wrong for both of you to do it to yourselves and each other.

You are heading towards a disaster when one of the spouses finds out about the affair.

You need to step back and resolve whatever issues are in your marriage that made you vulnerable to an affair. If those issues cannot be resolved, then you need to make a decision whether to accept or divorce. The married woman you are having an affair with should do the same.

I wish you well in this difficult situation.

Answer 3

If it's ok then it will not be called affair. According to wiki the definition of affair is "An affair is usually a euphemism for a situation where two people are involved in an illicit activity. It is usually a romantic relationship commonly of limited duration."

Answer 4

lying is never right. if the woman you are having an affair with does not love you then why are you taking the chance of ruining what you have with your actual wife over nothing? If you don't love your wife you should leave her because no one deserves to be lied to. Not you, your wife, or anyone else. I hope you don't have children because if you do you are not being very considerate of anyone's feelings but your own.

Answer 5

A married man gives up the right to love any one else when he becomes MARRIED!!!!

Answer 6

Uh, no.

You should have blurted this question out right after the minister read you your vows, instead of saying "I do".

The whole point of getting married is so people don't give into urges to be fickle, once they settle down to have children together.

Answer 7

sorry but it's not right, they are both married and it'll just ruin their married life, family and kids so better for them to avoid the temptations and even if only one of the is married, it's still wrong.

Answer 8

NO NEVER EVER IST IT EVER OK UNLESS THE WIFE AGREES WITH THE HUSBAND THAT IT IS OK. Monogomy is the sole purpose of a tradional marriage but there are "swingers" who are OK with polygomy in a marriage.

Answer 9

If u do love and respect your wife, then better not.

But if u have done it, keep it a perfect secret. Don tell her; it'll break her heart.

A perfect love is perfect lie.

Make sure it's not your routine. Consider again...

Answer 10

NO, if they really do love each other than they should get divorced and ruin the lives of their spouses and if they have any children first.Then they can be together.