i have been wiv my bf for 3months and i love him he has asked me to marry him i want to? is that okay? we r moving in wiv each other too pls help?
2006-06-14 22:20:52 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well You will already have known they are the one for you.....I met and fell in love with my man and married him in 3 months of meeting we have been happily married for 14 yrs now but with all relationships had our ups and downs :)
2006-06-14 22:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by spiritwishes_1 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it totally depends on the 2 of you. You could be together 5 years before you decide to get married and end up divorced a month later, because the future is uncertain there is no telling what will happen. I have to admit though you do sound a bit young (like in your teens or early 20's), so that would be my only concern. If het treats you right and you love him...then why not? Just bear in mind that marriage is difficult and should be a serious commitment so be prepared to work at it.
2006-06-15 04:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no... Don't get engaged yet, and don't move in together. You barely know each other. What's your hurry? If you really love each other, you will still love each other a year from now. If it's just infatuation (you won't know for a while) , and you realize down the road that you've made a mistake, imagine the heartache of calling off the engagement. The fact that you're asking this question suggests that you aren't sure. There's nothing wrong with waiting!
2006-06-18 17:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok. I asked my woman in 2 months. I think you just know when it is right. The thing is..when you ask 4 advice you may or may not hear what U want. That is the point - U. If you can honestly tell urself U see being w/him 4ever. I would go 4 it and live w/awhile before setting a date. If U have any doubts at all, i would wait. If you have 4ever w/each other what is the rush. Best of Luck!
2006-06-14 22:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Budweiser No.8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you see what happens when you move in together? You can't really know someone well enough within 3 months to judge whether you want to spend the rest of your life with them. Do you know his thoughts on babies, money etc... While it's not romantic, you need to talk about these things to see if you're compatible. If you want 10 babies and he doesn't want any, you might end up in a bit of a mess.
It also depends on how old you are. Although I wouldn't recommend getting engaged after 3 months no matter what your age is!
2006-06-14 22:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by zanzibar138 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck and yeah, go for it! I was engaged within 2 months of meeting my fiance. We were living together after 4 months of being together and things worked out great, we're still together and happy after 3 years - getting married in 2008. Of course you may be a bit wary - but thats only natural. If it feels right then do it - life is too short!
2006-06-15 03:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My finacee and i were dating only a year before we got engaged. All of our friends and family were so happy that him and I got engaged but there were some people who told that it was to soon but we didn't listen to what they had to say because we love each other alot and there isn't a day that doesn't go by that we don't want to be with each other. If you really love one another who cares how long you have been dating, I say got for it because if this want you's both want then don't worry what others have to say. Good luck.
2006-06-15 02:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by heavenlildevil78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both love each other, both ready and both singles then there's no problem about it. it doesn't matter how long you've been commited with each other. we also have the same situation before and I let it happened because I knew and I felt that I'll be happy with that decision so now we're now in our 2 years marriage and 3 1/2 years in a relationship. we're engaged like 2 or 2 1/2 months then.:)
2006-06-14 22:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by babypards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is completely fine i moved in with my wife 2 years ago after being together 1 month and got engaged 3 week later now we are married and i am only 21 its the best thing that has happened to me go on give it a try good look
2006-06-14 23:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by rico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know a person within 3 months.....at that point the relationship is still new and you're both totally in love with each other.....give it time...what's the rush to get married?? That is a lifelong commitment and you really need to know each other, good and bad, before you do that.
2006-06-15 00:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no sure answer to this... you are the best judge of how you feel about each other. If it is something you both want and you have thought about it all not just the wedding day itself then go for it if it feels right. also make sure you both want the same things out of life ( IE children). Good luck!
2006-06-14 22:54:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋