my bf thinks im fat no other person i know thinks that.. i mean my bones are practicly showing...but he says when he looks at me he feels sick just thinking about all the fat around me... he dosnt let me eat very much im only allowed to eat what he tells me to...and he makes me vomit after so i dont get fat
2006-06-14 22:02:59 · 33 answers · asked by hexy 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Why dont you just lose some weight, problem solved. The only place fat girls belong is in the ocean with all the other whales
2006-06-14 22:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by guitarraveboy 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
You are not in a healthy relationship. He has a serious problem, he needs help. Find out what is really bothering him, otherwise he will control you for as long as you are together - so imagine if you eventually get married with this issue unresolved - you will be his slave. And I am sure you do not want that - in fact no one deserves that kind of treatment. And I know it may be hard - but if he insist you are fat (even if you are - if he truly loves you he will accept you as you are), just tell him plainly: "If you find it hard to accept and appreciate me as I am, let us break up - I love you, however I cannot bear the treatment you are subjecting me to." And should he decide to leave you - please don't plead with him - let him go. You need someone who will accept and appreciate you. Wishing you the best in life!!!
2006-06-14 22:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by vusimhl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when does your boyfriend get to DICTATE what you eat or force you to throw up.. HON, he has a problem and he is very scary..
Why are you allowing him to tell you how to live?? You are a free person who has the right to be whoever you are.. We no longer have slavery.. He does NOT own you..
Does you Mom or Dad tell you how to dress and make you throw up?? Then why in the world do you think HE has that right?
You will never satisfy this guy. HE isn`t satisfied with you now..
Hon, You need to move on to a man who loves you , the total you..
My goodness, What is he gonna do when you start to get wrinkles or get a little older?? Or for goodness sakes need glasses. He is sooooooooo shallow.. And he is putting your health at risk and YOU ARE LETTING HIM... he is a controlling man and usually they become abusive.. Are you ready for that???
You will never live up to HIS expectations, Nor should you have to...
God bless & hugs from Texas. {:-)
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2006-06-14 22:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your own decisions. vomitting often is dangerous. this takes the important emzynes out of your stomach that your body needs to brake down the food you eat. with out those emzynes your food will diegest slower and some food will not get digested. and when you feel full longer the less you eat and you may need to see a doctor because after you do that for a long period of time then your body and your mind has to be retrained to eat properly. Thats not love that's control. Be your own person. Choose wisely after getting informed information
2006-06-14 22:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by a believer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship you obviously know that it is an abusive and bad relationship if you are writing here. Find people who make you feel good about yourself and make you want to be a better person. Drop anyone who does not do that. It is simple. Ask yourself why you are so concerned with pleasing someone who doesn't think you are worth anything? Why do you think he is better than you? He is not. Grow a spine, love yourself and dump the good for nothing bastard you are allowing to be your boyfriend.
2006-06-14 22:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by tryingtolearnsomething 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question seems a little made up cuz I dont know any women that would put up with that crap. Holy no self esteem if this is true - get a backbone. Sit in front of him and eat a whole pie or something and if he tells you to got throw it up - throw it up on him.
2006-06-14 22:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mommaof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is not the guy for you. Get out of this relationship.
Partners are expected to like each other for what they are not for what they will make each other into. He already feels sick of the way you look. Why are you hanging on to him, are you a looser?
2006-06-14 22:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by gihan_rashad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would rather see you like Terry Schivo, than to see you healthy (that is how she got in the condition she was before she died)
Loose the most burdening weight you have ever had in your life in one minute...DUMP THAT GUY. You are beautiful and deserve better.
Don't look back just leave him.
2006-06-14 22:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by micki_g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a sick joke - one more of these questions and I will report you over and over again until you get kicked out!
2006-06-14 22:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Laura Palmer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do realise that by going out with him, you're gonna have eating disorders and fall so sick that no other guy will ever wanna go out with you?
if you like him too much, tell him to shutup and live with what he has. if he doesnt shutup, tell him to eff off.
you rather be your beautiful self :)
2006-06-14 23:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Puja N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have a boyfriend who thinks that!
He should love you for what's inside your heart, not looking on the outside. Partners should love eachother deeply, you can't love someone who wants to change you completely! You should love yourself and believe in yourself and if he keeps pushing you, dump him flat!
2006-06-14 22:10:42 · answer #11 · answered by altinok_aylin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋