my bf gave me a fat lip the other day... what should i do ?
i was wearing my fave shorts the other day and he told me to take them off i wouldnt and then he hit me really hard
2006-06-14 21:57:54 · 23 answers · asked by hexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he shouldve hit you, you desrved it for not doing what he said. You shouldnt of wore the shorts anyways. Act like a lady and not a tramp. I hope he taught you a lesson.
2006-06-14 21:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by guitarraveboy 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Tell every male friend you have, and all your girlfriends to tell all their male friends that Bubba like to hit you. And before you know it, Bubba will be sprouting a fat lip of his own (if he's lucky) or spending a few nights in jail, or the hospital.
Either way, you will be finished with him, and will be able to move on, and find a man that knows how to treat a lady. No lady deserves to be hit, no matter what.
2006-06-15 05:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by x_pistol_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit him back...
Just kidding.. Hes right, there are a lot of types of shorts out there for you to choose from. Maybe what u wore was a little inviting.
No man would ever want to have a gf who doesnt knw how to carry herself properly in any standards.
Might as well date a tramp.
2006-06-15 05:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by BLACKPOPE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the moron who answered first. Your "boyfriend" should be your ex by now. If you were my child, I'd file a complaint with the police. There is absolutely no reason why you should be hit. He obviously doesn't care about you. Don't let him sweet talk his way out of this one. Make him part of your history and find a guy who treats you respectfully.
2006-06-15 05:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy has hit a woman, the unhappy facts are that he will then go on and do it again and (maybe) again......
Get out now. The fact that you have to ask the question suggests you might be rather lacking in confidence, and you might be thinking you can't do without him. Well, you can, and no doubt you will. Get out now.
2006-06-15 05:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Fred S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should run, do not stop. You need to get out while you are still alive..
Would you take that from your sister, mother, brother, father, cousin, uncle or even a stranger?
Then why in the world would you allow ( YES ALLOW) him to do it?
Hitters only go from bad to worse. They do NOT stop// Why are you still there. By staying you are telling him ir is fine to hit you
Please get out... And don`t look bad and no matter how sweet he may get he will do it again...
It is NEVER ok to hit someone you claim to love.. Love isn`t suppose to hurt..
God bless & hugs from Texas. {:-)
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2006-06-15 05:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is allowed to lay a finger on anyone. He is hitting you when you are just bf and gf, what if you are a married couple. My dear just start looking for someone more loving and caring. He should fight with other men.
2006-06-15 05:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by Tipsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you did, he had no right to hit you. If you think he might hit you again, then my advice to you would be to dump him and find a guy who respects you. If you've been together a long time and he's truly sorry, then you might want to consider staying with him IF he gets counseling to deal with his anger issues.
2006-06-15 05:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!!!!! If he hits you once, he'll hit you again. If he loved you, he wouldnt hurt you. Its just pathetic to see guys hit a girl - get out now, and report him to the cops. If you dont want to report him, at least leave, you dont deserve to be hit by anyone. good luck
2006-06-15 05:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by kjay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have socked him back in his mouth.Did I read this correctly....Boyfriend only right? You will be getting you a** beat on the daily if you get married. I say keep the shorts toss the loving,caring boyfriend.
2006-06-15 05:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by um_er_ra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is obvious what you should do. Dump his *** and leave. It might get a whole lot worse if you don't get out now. And don't listen to those people that say you are a tramp and deserved it, they are just sexist pieces of sh!t.
2006-06-15 05:20:36 · answer #11 · answered by dinomite_21000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋