i have a 12 year old sister and she has asked me a some questions about sex and how to know when you are ready to have sex i need some good advice of how to tell her nothing raw plz!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-06-14 20:50:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just tell her what it is as it really is. Boys are crazy for it to put their **** into grils’ ****.
Tell her the consquences: pregnancy and STD if they don’t use protection.
Tell her she will feel when she’s ready, and tell her to say no if she feels like. If the guy loves her, he will understand it.
2006-06-14 20:55:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
Tell her the basic facts, including the fact that people who do it can get pregnant, and emphasize that it's something for adults. Include the fact that, as her brother, you are naturally protective of her and would prefer she stay a virgin long enough to appreciate how special that is, and to make a very wise choice about who will be privileged to end that period of her life. Point out that she deserves to have it be a very, very special event, and with a very good man who will love her and treat her well. She should remember that until she is 18, she would be risking serious trouble for whatever man is so privileged, and it's really better for her to wait.
After that, just respond to her questions honestly, unless she asks something too personal about your sex life. It may be worth your while to be honest with her even so, on the theory that she is one of the people who might reasonably be expected to keep your secrets.
2006-06-15 04:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she will know when she is at least 18...You dont want her having sex at this age. Explain to her reasons why sex at such a young age is not advisable.
2006-06-15 03:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not talk to on this deeply to your sister as she is very young. just say her now you are a little girl and it is the thing not do before marrige. Just say her to ask this to your mummy or elder sister. i hope they will tell the things she should know about that........
2006-06-15 04:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kuldeep J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i told my 12 year-old-sister that she will get sick and die if she doesnt wait til she's married. LoL i know it sounds harsh but it'll make her keep her pants on until she figures out her own anatomy and possibly a boy's.
2006-06-15 03:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by ayleyha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she needs a time at least 5 years
2006-06-15 07:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by ozcavalry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee umm tell her to wait 10 years
2006-06-15 03:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to wait for some more years,since this is not the right time.
2006-06-15 03:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about the birds and bees.
2006-06-15 03:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her to your mother.
2006-06-15 03:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Medicated Harmony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋