i met this guy about 2 mths. and i have told him that i am considering going back to my boyfriend so pls stop calling me
well that did not work he keeps calling me and leaving rude messages on my phone like " you better answer the phone i still love you, you just cant leave me like this, I'll get you back one way or the other, how can i let him down with out hurting him??????????
2006-06-14 20:31:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One thing is for sure-he doesn't love you. He does not even care about you at all!! If he doesn't care about bothering-and therefore hurting you, why, for crying out loud, should you care about not hurting him?! Give him a dose of his own crap, go back to your boyfriend and close that chapter of your life with him. Tell him something like "You're not even half the man I'd want to have for a boyfriend". That will burst his ego bubble and he'll leave you alone!!!
DON'T PICK ANY OF HIS CALLS.
DON'T REPLY ANY OF HIS MESSAGES.
DON'T SEE HIM EVEN IF HE CRIES THAT HE WANTS TO.
Go back to your boyfriend and enjoy your love!
2006-06-14 20:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by James Phillipe 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Forget about not hurting him, he's getting creepy. Tell him to stop calling or you'll have to go to the police. Though if he's been saying stuff about getting you back one way or another, you might want to find a way to save those messages so you can let the police hear. Without evidence, they can't do anything to keep him away if he gets out of control.
2006-06-15 03:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how dare you hurt this poor guy! what you need to do is tell him to meet you in a dark deserted building (see away from crowds his feelings won't get hurt so easy) far from any help ,uh I meant onlookers,it is obvious you are just a teasing man-hating shrew!man ,i am sooo bad i need a spankin-lol
2006-06-15 04:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by badmts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, thay MFer is crazy, u need to tell him, tell him stop calling here, and that u don't like him that way, u might have to hurt his feelings. then if he keeps call, block that number. and hope u don't run into him
2006-06-15 04:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by raven j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think this might be a little dangerious, he sounds seriously absessed, if things get worse i think you should tell somebody, or get some pepper spray...lol i dont thinik pepper sprey will help you much but watch out ok
2006-06-15 03:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by lana s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's already been hurt whether you meant to or not so don't worry about that anymore. tell him to stop calling or you will press harassment charges.
2006-06-15 03:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by christop_white@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
W/o hurting him? Kick his a++ for bothering you all the time.
2006-06-15 03:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by BarbieQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen if he scared u tht means he doesn't love u ..he is lusty, let him do wht he want to do..n its better to talk to ur bf abt this matter
best of luck
2006-06-15 03:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who care
2006-06-15 03:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋