my ex worked out of town i would only see him once every 6 months and we were going to get engagged when he got back then i got an e mail saying he never loved me and he never cared for me so he dumped me in an e mail what would you do
2006-06-14 19:48:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
im sorry this happened to you and i know how upset you must be right now. there isnt anything you can do if he doesnt want to be part of the relationship except move on and find someone who really loves and cares for you. good luck.
2006-06-14 19:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the worm a worm! No, really...this ain't, and never was love. There"s an old cliche-living well is the best revenge. Get a great job, find the "right" one, buy a huge house, win the lottery, and then e-mail him to give him your thanx. After all, if you hadn't met him, you wouldn't have seen what hooking up with a schmuck could do for you!
2006-06-15 02:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by proudnavymom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A similiar thing happened to me actually....
The hardest thing for me was finding closure.
My ex was very vague about the breakup and I found it really frustrating. For me, I had a hard time getting over it because I couldn't find out why we broke up.
Now, you could try to fight for the sake of your relationship, but the thing is, unless he puts in effort too, you can't get back together, and if you guys did patch things up, you'd always have this moment in your mind...
Call him up and talk this out, get out your feelings. Try to deal with the emotions. Long distance relationships can be so much more intense as they rely so strongly on communication, to have that so quickly severed can be traumatic.
Spend some time with friends and family. You'll need their support.
Good luck.
2006-06-15 03:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by chia_vampire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Classy: write him off. He was a waste of your time. Fortunatly it's over and you can move on. Lots of nice guys out there baby yeah.
Not classy but with petty revenge: put his email on tons of spam engines like penis enlagement spams and fake rolex offers. Also put an ad in a paper in his town for hot gay love.
2006-06-15 02:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Theo Black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is lying about the never loving u and the never caring for u part. he still does love you, and he still does care for you. he probably just got scaried. it will be ok. cry it out, maybe u have to talk to him about it. but he took the ***** way out. he knew that if was talking to u over the phone, he could probably never leave you. thats why he did it over the net. everything will be ok. oneday
2006-06-15 04:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by raven j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk.
Don't mind about him anymore.
He lost intrest in you.
Probably because of the distance..more likely because of another girl.
Trust me on this one.
And he is saying the truth here.
If he loved you..he would be calling and saying i love you so many times.
And would try sending you flowers or something!
something really romantic!
So move on..
remove every thing that can be on contact with him...
And everything that reminds you of him..
and every habbit you have because of him..
and don't think about him..
Also spend time with your girlfriends.
:)
2006-06-15 02:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vanessa, float a very big balloon over the city giving the name of the guy and that he has dumped you.
2006-06-15 04:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on you don't need this rot. Find someone that doesn't have email access lol the best they can do is dump you via sms LOL
2006-06-15 02:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by italian_honey06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad it happened now and not after you married him. If he is going to treat you this way, don't even waste your time thinking about him. I know that is easier said than done, but he's not worth your time.
2006-06-15 03:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Abby Normal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy you didn't marry the loser. That is a great thing! Now go find someone who deserves you!
2006-06-15 02:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by mazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋