I want to know how much it really hurts the first time, i mean, is it terrible, will i cry? Plus, do you know why theres so much pain? And is it true that because some of your bones separate and so you can -bear babies-?
2006-06-14 19:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by Ooo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hurts like he#@ if you do it before your 19 years old. Don't do it until then. I repeat, don't do it.
2006-06-14 19:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl may feel hurt while doing for first time due to a variety of reasons. These are age, preparedness for sex, trust in the partner etc. As a matter of fact, the penetration hurts for two reasons. One it might break hymen which is a small layer of tissue covering the internal walls of vagina. But in most of the cases, as per the present lifestyle, it might have already broken. Besides, the thrust on first few occassions, not only the first time, may cause the skin to sore and hence some pain. Nevertheless, if you are sufficiently aroused by the foreply before actual penetration, the pain is likely to be minimal and the joy thereafter, would take care of the rest.
Now second part of your question. You are right. During the pregnancy, the hormones produced in the body gives rise to relaxing the pelvic bone joints. This helps the baby to come out easily. In most of the cases, this process brings pelvic or pubic discomfort. But the body is like this and it is designed for good.
2006-06-15 03:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told, due to a hormonal problem I had to go see a gynocolgists at an early age and therefore didn't have my hymen when I lost my virginity. Though I can tell you the first time I went to the doctor hurt like h*ll. There is so much pain because the flesh is torn, and yes the female pelvis is designed to pull apart so that we can have children. But it just pulls apart though it doesn't actually separate.
2006-06-15 02:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it was like getting my ears pierced, it hurt but was tolerable and I didn't bleed much. A friend said it hurt so much that she cried and she had to get the guy to stop. Another friend said it really hurt her and she bled heaps. Yet another friend broke her hymen during gymnastics so it didn't hurt her at all. So it really depends on you.
It hurts because you have a hymen, a thin bit of skin that's up there that breaks when you have sex. I've never heard about bones seperating, I don't think its true.
2006-06-15 03:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK.........it dosen't hurt as bad if you r really in luv w/ the person bc if you do then u will mostly be thinking about it as making LOVE and not as having sex! of course it will still hurt a lil but make sure you luv the person and most likely alot of ur focuse will be on something else!
2006-06-15 02:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts, like you want to take off a ring from your finger thats too tight...or a bangle that too small! It hurts becoz you're hymen breaks, no its not becoz your bones seperate to bear babies....some cry some dont. i didnt cry.
2006-06-15 02:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you take your time, and are well lubricated, and go gently it shouldn't hurt that much.
As women mature their hips naturally widen in order to make child bearing easier, but it happens slowly, and isn't painful.
2006-06-15 02:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody first time is different. you'll have to see for urself.
2006-06-15 02:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my 'ho screamed!! na just kiddin, i dont really know.
2006-06-15 02:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know because i still virgin
2006-06-15 02:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by mudman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋