for getting a work permit in the country that I study, I need a job and for getting a job I need a work permit and I f I dont get them I don't have enough money to finish my last year at the college, and if I don't finish it I won't score up to immigrate to Canada and if I dont Immigrate there I can't find out wheter I really loved her or not and If I ask her befor all these procedures to marry me I will think, I did it because of lack of option, but the point is I feel I really love her and simply want to base my decison making freely,yet the dilema is she cant wait too many years, now what do you suggest I should do that is much simpler less time consuming and gives me the feeling that I made my decision freely :-??
2006-06-14 19:01:41 · 5 answers · asked by yossarian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It's just my opinion, or suggestion, hoping it helps some. To finish your last year of college is an opportunity, take it while you can. This would be an accomplishment you will be proud to have completed. No one can take that away from you. Marriage can be planned ahead even if it's five years ahead. Communication comes in all forms, therefore, if you are in love, and money is an obstacle, write each other, a stamp is way cheaper. If love is loyal and true, it will hold out and be strong enough to endure the wait. If part of your dream in life was to get your college degree, then do it. Your love for her will not change, it will still be there, and perhaps, she loves you enough to support your dream goal, by all encouragement necessary so that you both can celebrate that wonderful accomplishment. The decision is still yours, but hope that helps.
2006-06-14 19:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apply for a student loan, bursary, or a grant at your university. If you have good enough grades or a good enough financial reason, you should be able to get at least a few thousand dollars (USD). You shouldn't be denied an education based on financial status, and schools realize that. As for a job, usually if you work at a university, you don't need a work permit. As for your Catch-22 situation where you can't get a job without a work permit, and you can't get a work permit without a job, I suggest you discuss this with your school's career adviser. Maybe you shouldn't just do this for a girl and do it instead for yourself.
2006-06-15 02:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by King Yellow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not plan your life around a woman, they come and go. If she can not wait until you can take care of business then concentrate on what you need to do.
2006-06-15 02:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by 3DDD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a Major Major problem, one that only Milo Minderbender could solve.
2006-06-15 02:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make it sound like the end of the world, try to gather your sources and implement a go getter plan!
Try always! you never know when the door opens, don't overlook your future, just step by step!
2006-06-15 02:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋