exboyfriend trouble help plz?

Question

why do my ex still keep in touch with me but he don't want a gurl at this point he calls me everyday to talk we been split for 5 months and was together for 2 years i haven't seen him in 4 months and he don't want to see me yet because he don't know how he would react but why do he still keep in touch with me still if he don't want me he wants to be friends and we are but he don't want me to be with another guy he wants me for him still i guess but its weird because he don't want a gurl at this point what should i do i still love him and he tell me he still love me what should i do about this we both decided that its best for us just being friends but i still want him at one point but then i want to be single to and have fun i don't know what to do .he told me the other day that he miss me and that his life been weird now he is leaving for vacation for 3 weeks what should i do he is leaving tomorrow he is gonna call me tomorrow b4 he leave . i think he still love me like he says

i think he is confused and still don't know what he wants . he told me the other day that im still his everything, his wife, his love and everything so im confused i don't think he know what he wants he don't want me with anyone else and i don't want him with no one and we both haven't had a gurl friend or boyfriend since we split so what up with him ?his cuzin still tell that he still love me what do u thing is up with him i knew him since he was 14 and now he is 17 but im older by months we had a adult relationship it wasn't no kiddy sh!t that why i want real good answers and not stupid one please help me what up with him and what should i do i still haven't move on since 5 months and when i try i can't plz help me plz what up w/ him? and what should i do ?

Answer 1

I know how hard it is to move on. I"ve been there. I have no doubt that you still love each other but you must remember there is a difference in loving soembody and being IN love. I think that maybe he is just going through stages of letting go. He wants to talk to you and wants you to be available to talk to you whenever he wants, yet he doesn't want to be with you. This should prove the theory that he is wanting to move on but on his own terms.

Answer 2

he needs to make up his mind if he still wants you! he needs to stop playing games with ur heart and mind. me and my bf were like that wen we broke up but when i just came out and told him that i wasn't going to sit around and put my life on hold while he tries to straighten his out then we got back together! (who knows maybe it's bc he thought he would lose me 4ever i dk) if he really luvs you then u will know it and not think it! girl i know it is hard to let the one u luv and have given so much of your life to go but if he's is not going to give you a straight answer.. move on! it might be hard but then again it might be the right thing to do so you can realize that there is someone out there willing to do nething 4 u and not make you wait and/or wonder!

Answer 3

hello hun. I purely have one piece of advice from the real international, no longer college. in case you want some thing executed top, do it your self. do not position self assurance in somebody else to relay messages for you or what no longer. actual in case your nevertheless taking "field journeys" you mustn't be having guy issues. you need to be nerve-racking about getting the great grades you could so that you've the great available placement in college. you mustn't be getting lower than pressure about some thing that you have not got any corporation dabbling in I.E relationship at a college age.

Answer 4

I think that, well you probably wont listen but you should just say hi when he calls and let it go and think about it while he is gone.

Don't meet, just be nice and give it a little time. You obviously need a little space and if he wont give it to you run.

Answer 5

he might not want a relationship so i would just wate for him if you like him