I've gone on two dates with this girl and had a really good time and it seemed like she was interested too. I called her earlier this week to make plans again and we talked and she said she'd get back to me about hanging out today. Well today came and went and no call. I don't wanna seem all desperate and call her back. How long should I wait before I assume shes just not interested? It seemed like she was unless it was a front, we had good convo and the body language showed me she was
We have eachothers numbers but not screen names so I have no other way of getting a hold of her
2006-06-14 18:46:34 · 12 answers · asked by Matt J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait for 1 week and if she doesn't call u back then get over her there are literally gazillions of girls out there
2006-06-14 18:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would give her a call just to check in and see if she is interested in hanging out. If you feel it is appropriate, you can exchange screen names. She may have forgotten or maybe there she had other plans or appointments and she forgot? Or, if you didn't have a solid date planned, maybe she just assumed that your plans to hang out were casual - who knows, she may have been waiting for your call eventhough she said she would get back to you. I would give it another shot - give her a call and see what her response is. If she is not available or doesn't return your call, that would raise an eyebrow with me as to her interest level. If she is interested, try to set a date and time to hang out and have some type of planned activity even if it is simple - going to the park or movies, grabbing a starbucks or pizza or whatever. Then take it from there and see what happens. You mentioned the conversation and body language showed you she was interested. If it was the opposite, you probably would not have gotten much conversation or body language.
2006-06-14 18:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jules 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls Flake. Thats what they do. When you try to set up a date and the girl tells you she will get back to you and let you know it is always a big NO!!
NEVER fall for that. If she says well I don't know, let me call you back. Tell her NEVERMIND I got other things I wanna do. Always be busy.
Do Not become her phone friend. If she wants to talk on the phone and never meet give her 3 attempts to meet you and after that drop her because she will talk to you and tell you all her problems and then go have sex with some other guy, most likely the one she is complaining to you about.
Don't ask to Hang Out. Have a plan. Say you're busy most of the week but that you are going to -Blank- (fun or cool place) on Such and such a day ( after pointing out 2 days you are busy for effect) and that she should come with you. Make it an activity NOT a Date. Go take her to coffee or something simple like walking around a downtown district.
If by the second time she decides not to meet you tell her, "next time I ask you out will be the last."
Be willing to walk away. Don't become her emotional boy-toy. I know countless girls that will have their go-to-guy just for making her feel good so she can get back out there and find other guys. They say, "I'm going to hang out with so-and-so today. He always makes me feel so good! I don't like him more than a friend and he doesn't have a chance but he thinks he does."
Don't be that poor sap.
Advice: If you like this girl - Go out with 10 others and then see if you still like her. Beautiful women are common. It's Quality that isn't.
2006-06-15 02:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by Geese Howard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start calling other chicks for dates. YOU NEVER SHOULD RELY ON JUST ONE GIRL TO DATE. I don't give a damn if you like her a lot. You should have a numbers in your possesion, the size of a phone book.
The one thing chicks can smell is desperate. You have to carry yourself around like you have naked girls waiting in your bedroom to get back home and sex them up like Caligula.
The point is, don't get stuck on one, when you should have plenty to call on and date. I don't know how old you are, but if your in your twenties, kill the "puppy love" bullsh*t and just date. When you hit your 30's, then it'll be the time to think about getting serious. If luck happens to find you before then, cudos! But don't depend on luck. Depend on your common sense and listening to yourself.
Should you call that girl back? Not right away. Wait till a few days and call her back. If she has a roommate or she still lives with her family, DON'T LEAVE A MESSAGE FOR HER. Tell them you'll call back. Repeat step one.
2006-06-14 18:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no interest in you. Most likely you were boring on the first date and VERY boring on the second date. And if you keep calling you will just look desperate and pathetic. Ask out another girl.
2006-06-14 18:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things can be going on here. She could be playing the hard-to-get game and so is making herself unavailable in order to test your interest. It could be she wants you to pursue her, which would mean she's waiting for your call. Then, she just might not want to see you again and hasn't the courage to say so. My advice? Call her again and ask her out. If she puts you off again, look elsewhere.
Good luck!
2006-06-15 02:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by quietwalker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her tomorrow night. Maybe she got busy or something today...it happens.
2006-06-14 18:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call a girl once and dont call her back you have gota let her know you are inc ontrol play hard to get girls like that want what they cant get
2006-06-14 18:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by bill s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ight man u may have messed it up a lil just forget her and hit some other chick up
2006-06-14 18:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends she mioght be busy call her later
2006-06-14 18:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by cool guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋