A woman who is highly intelligent has a man who treats her like she is the queen of his world, but later she sees a guy who is hot, adventurous...she later finds out that he is manipulative, insecure, overly dependent on others (such as family) rather than making his own desisions...he constently picks things to argue about so that he would get his way...then the woman realizes that what she had was a good thing (the real thing) and that she left him for the guy she is currently with. What does that tell you of women who say that they want a good, decent man and when they finally get one, they dump them for someone less????
2006-06-14 18:16:05 · 6 answers · asked by truelifeandlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow.This is a great question and too big for the purview of this site, but I'll try to do what I can speaking as a former bachelor...
It wasn't until I was in my early 20's that I realized that women liked "nice guys" - but not to date. In fact, I like to use the "friends" paradigm: People really want to "date" Ross, but they all generally want to 'bang" Joey. I fund that often, the less agreeable I was, the more nudity I would get. Pretty retarded, huh?
As a rule, women like a challenge, and guys being a bit silent and recalcitrant always help that. Also, the inherant drama that comes with such a rocky relationship can't help but beg for attention. Many women subconsciously like that. As for what this says aout woemne that profess to wanting a nice guy? Well, what people need to keep in mind is what women *say* they want and what they *really* want are 2 different things.
That said, there's also the idea that many women feel like they need to "save", "change" or "fix" their beau. The sad thing about this methodology is all too often, if they succeed, they end up creating exactly the type of guy they aren't interested in anymore. Do you feel me?
So, in a nutshell, I think guys should keep it moderated. There's nothing wrong with being a little goofy, but don't be a pushover either. And women, it's possible to have the hot-monkey sex with the non-babdboy types. :)
Do I get "best answer" now? lol
2006-06-15 04:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by aaron_hungwell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Let's simply begin with the assumptions of your query. Most ladies do not allow guys deal with them like crap. A few unlucky ladies make awful offerings in lifestyles as a result of vainness issues or no longer being goal sufficient while the romance takes bloom. Second, why the common assumption that guys are assholes. Lots are. Lots don't seem to be. That could be corresponding to my announcing that every one ladies are bitches. Third, possibly you will have to take a look at yet another process and keep in mind men and women as participants instead than deal in generalities.
2016-09-09 01:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by ferryman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adventure is always more exciting than reality and throw sexual tension into the mix and it easily gets out of control. I am sure she has regrets but maybe she just gets off on the bad boy type.
2006-06-14 18:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of them wants to be treated badly, I'm the same, without intending to, I always pick guys that deep down I know are wrong for me. That way its not 'my fault' when we break up, its easier to deal with. Now you'd think that knowing that, I'd stop myself, but youd be wrong, I keep going back for more.
2006-06-14 18:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes women find it easier
to go with guys dumber than them
women seem to have self esteem issues more
than men
2006-06-14 18:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does not only apply to women first off....it applies to men as well...its human nature......you want what you cant have and when its gone you want it back....
2006-06-14 18:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋