when he questions me his mom aLWAYS GETS INVOLVED AND THEY TAG TEAM ME. WE HAVE BEEN DEALING ABOUT 8 OR 9 MONTHS. THIS TO ME CAUSES GREAt stress. he says he loves me but he is very envies. i cant talk to certain people. my daughter,sisters or even certain men and im ready to bail. this dont appear to be love? any responses welcomed.
2006-06-14 18:10:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't love you, the tag teaming by him and his mother prove it.
he's going to get nasty and even more suspicious if you stay with him. When he says "I love you" he means, "I need to control you. I don't trust you and am THRILLED by my own suspicions."
bail. Bail out now. Don't look back. You're standing on dynamite.
2006-06-14 18:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that he is really insecure. Since his mother is involved maybe she has had a bad history with men and he was exposed to it at an early age. I wouldn't throw in the towel just yet. I would dig a little deeper and find the root of the problem It definitely isn't your fault, but if you want things to work out you should try to understand why he is so set on finding out if you have any skeletons.
2006-06-14 18:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by just_a_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriends mother is involved in this? Sister, it's time to bail!
Your boyfriend is responsible for his actions, but it seems "Mommy Dearest" is pulling this boys' strings. Call it "passive aggresive" behaviour on his mothers' part or whatever pop psychology term you want to use, it's the mother who got this boy shackled. Mommy is jealous of you and your boyfriend-"mommies boy" is just a tool.
If you make any attempt to battle his mother on any level to save a relationship that doesn't exist, just remember what Colin Powell said to Pres. Bush before we went to Iraq:
"If you go into Iraq, you own it".
After you dump this poor fool, take a time out and don't jump into any other relationships. Recoup. Move on, then DATE. No relationships! DATE!
2006-06-14 18:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts, I feel you are right.
2006-06-14 18:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that.
Run.
2006-06-14 18:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell ur bf go ahead and try to find my past and tell me wat i m done .
2006-06-14 18:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋