Once you see no ring on the left finger :) what has been the best way to start a conversation with women in a bookstore? If there are any women out there reading, what would make you more likely to talk to a guy at a bookstore?
2006-06-14 17:58:59 · 20 answers · asked by inpoetry1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whatever she's reading, ask her "is that good?"... or if u've read it, start with "i read that... thought it was..."..
my point is, keep it casual. if there's chemistry, u'll both feel it. cant be faked. so yeaa... just be a nice guy. bookstore girls like nice guys.
2006-06-14 18:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well approaching someone is very difficult, you have to think twice before you approaching any women especially the women with a ring on her finger, to me the best way to talk to a lady in a book store is start say hi with a smile on you face and ask her have she read any good book lately or hold the book in you hand and ask her if she ever read it, do that only if ya in the same section, that mean ya have the same interest in reading. Good luck
2006-06-14 18:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by tq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a vivid reader try looking at the section of books she is in and relate the conversation to the same topic of books then get into the small talk, who knows what can happen from there.
2006-06-14 18:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by michelle c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't matter if it were a bookstore, farmer's market or a hair salon. If the man is polite he catches my attention. If he is intelligent with a good sense of humor, I'm interested!!
2006-06-14 18:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this actually happened to me. I was at a bookstore enjoyinf my vanillabean frapp when a really goodlooking guy came up to me and said, "Excuse me, I just have to tell you that you are very beautiful. Your boyfriend is a very lucky man." It sounds cheesey, but his delivery was excellent. He was actually very sincere. We dated for quite a while...Good luck...
2006-06-14 18:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by taraleighsg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing works everywhere and everytime. just start talking and what ever comes out of your mouth is a conversation. if she is interested she will listen. if she is not she will still listen hoping to hear something she missed at first. but believe me they are all interested in someone that is confident in talking to a woman in public.
2006-06-14 18:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them if they have "get a date with a women in a bookstore for dummies" in stock
2006-06-14 18:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get a book and ask her have she read it and start a conversation from there.
2006-06-14 18:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by nfaredbooty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has worked for me. Grab a playGIRL; drop it in front of her. and with a high pitched voice, screech OH MY Did I do that? And giggle like a little girl. If this doesn't grab her attention, I don't know what will.
2006-06-14 18:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Batmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start off by saying hi..........duh......"Hi im (your name goes here) hows it going?( make sure your breath is fresh , you some what match , and shaved.....) Then tell her the truth be honest whether you thinks shes hot or what ever you think about her!! The truth is sexy ...random guys who have balls are sexy!!!! What is there to lose?
2006-06-14 18:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋