I'm a really shy guy who has a hard time talking to girls and I want to know how to open up to girls easier.

Answer 1

Its not really hard at all man! just walk up and just talk to them! dont care wut they think about you. Girls love confidence in a man! so just be your self! and if they dont like it tell them too shove off and that you dont care:) should try it sometimes it works! lol

Answer 2

If you are generally shy (I am with all people.), but don't like being cut off from the female half of the world the way I was for too long, find a friend, or group (2 is a group) that has contact with girls and become a part of it. Girls often say they're uneasy around shy guys, but many find it charming and others will put up with it, if they think you are interesting. Being interesting means you gotta have a variety
of interests and be interested in what others are (reasonably anyway). Get used to being in a group that includes girls and become a part of it (It's gotta be real, or you won't like it and it won't work - I have deliberately picked both girls and guys to try and get to know. I made a couple real good friends that way and the rest .........). After it seems natural to be part of a mixed group, it's likely you'll find you are getting to know girls pretty much naturally. It can take a while. Enjoy the process. I did the above and was eating alone in the mess hall at school, when a couple of girls who were close friends (of each other) and part of one group I ate with a fair amount came along and sat down with me.
I was astounded. They acted natural and it made it easy for me.
The 3 of us ate together a lot after that. I was all very casual and relaxed as it should be. I graduated well before they did, but sure got nice greetings from both (even when not together) when I was back on a few occassions (business). If you are really interested in someone and she's the right type, shyness won't matter. It took me way too long to find out that guys and girls, as different as they are, are all people and much more alike than different. I always made too big a deal of it. It's easy to say try not to, but try. I had a couple of pretty wonderful girlfriends. I'm still with the second. She's been my wife for a long time now and we are still close friends. I am very fortunate!

Answer 3

Is it possible that you may need to make a conscious decision NOT TO BE a victim?? You're already describing yourself as being shy and having a difficult time talking to girls--what's next, they steal your testicles??! They're just girls, not idols, although some of them THINK they are!! If you're comfortable with yourself, you won't even NEED to be shy! But that's a decision you're going to have to make on your own! You just need to stand up, be a man, take your chances, be prepared to be fully shut down once in a while, but you owe it to yourself to try without reservation! Have a little confidence--girls love that! And best of luck to you!

Answer 4

Well the good news is that a lot of girls like shy guys....and for a pretty good reason....they are usually not dogs. And if you can just look a girl in the eye and smile a little...well a lot of girls will take that as an invitation to start talking to you. takes a lot of the pressure off you to start the conversation. Ask a lot of questions..start simple...about the girl, and she will do most of the talking....but dont forget to answer any questions she may ask as well......it comes a little easier after a while.

Answer 5

It is easier said than done, I am a formal shy-guy. I finally realized that the worst thing that can happen is they won't be interested in me and that is okay. Besides, I think most girls like a guy who appears to be confident and doesn't care if he may look or act gooft.

Answer 6

Just talk to them like you would talk to anybody. Pick a girl and walk up and talk to her. Talk to her about movies, music, homework, local events....anything. And listen when she talks. Ask questions and learn things about her and what she is interested in. Be her friend, unconditionally. One of the biggest turn ons for a girl is a guy she can actually converse with, one who makes her laugh. The best and most lasting relationships are born from strong friendships.
BTW---shy is not a turn-off, many girls percieve that as cute and cuddly which is not at all a bad thing at all.

Answer 7

he likes you alright :), i'm a shy guy myself. If he doesn't make the first move then why don't you? I find it hard talking in real life too. Start talking to him like you would usually on facebook and sooner or later he would open up :)

Answer 8

Just go up to them with your head up high and start a friendly conversation with them. Be yourself. If they don't look interested or they think you're a freak or something, forget them and talk to other girls. Eventually, you'll find someone who's interested in you and that could be the beginning of something nice. (:

Answer 9

Mentally put yourself in her shoes. She's shy too probably. Respect her, Ask her questions and let her talk. Listen. . And compliment her, Go in for activities where you are with other young people, doing things that take energy, like dancing, ternnis,washing and polishing a car, skating, etc. Keep your conversation positive.

Answer 10

Find something to compliment a lady on to open up a conversation. Be friendly about it, not creepy. ;) Something like, "Hey, that clip looks nice in your hair," or "Great shoes, where'd you get them?"

Or just make a light comment on the weather or something. Just remember that girls are just regular people, and they'll respond positively to a friendly smile and respectful attitude.

Answer 11

If you're not too social in general, try talking to guys first, then try making female friends (not necessarily women you're romantically attracted to) and talking to them, this should provide a good jump-off point.